@ronna
my heart goes out to you. mao na akong gi ingon ni charmz nga "chrystal heart nga natagak unya nadugmok unya ikaw ra usa nagapunit sa mga pieces nga naghilak and you try to put them back together."
there's hope, i tell you. epoxy ra ang solution ana. gather the pieces and epoxy them together. may take years, but you'll get your heart back--stronger this time kay naa na goy epoxy.
i hope you get the analogy. (and epoxy is not another guy.)
Now for a little cognitive therapy. sus oi wa man sad to siyay ayo in the first place duh. immature man to iya ways of not allowing you to have a life other than with him. consolation: you got rid of an immature guy. it was a phase in your life where you had to learn your lessons...hala tun-i jud to aron makapasar sa sunod exam.
Now some hope for the future: the past is past, dont make it a continuous present. think about it, you have the opportunity to write another love story, something that will make that last one pale in comparison.
In short: mentality is now "I have YET to write my greatest love story."
I wish you all the epoxy in the world...and pens and paper to write your new story with. God bless!