
Originally Posted by
Klave
As a general advice na lang.
So you can avoid this situation again.
Consider the persons you meet when you are going out with a guy.
Example, dugay namo naguyab sa imong guy unya wala gyud kay nakaila nga significant. (Dili lang puro frends)
Most likely you are ending up in the same situation.
Kahinanglan maka-agi ka og igsuon, CLOSE nga cousin, yaya (don't underestimate), Auntie, Parents.
Unya maglibog gyud ko anang musugot nga uyab nga kulang pa kaayo ang info nahibaw-an.
Aside from personality which is initially shallow or a facade, you should try considering some basic information.
Example. asa exactly gapuyo (yes, I have met girls who don't know the addresses of their bfs)
Basic family background, educational background, and location of actual workplace.
I am by no means saying you should increase your standards.