i may be wrong and i may sound stereotypical, but this is how i perceive and classify people based on my observations.
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:: G A Y S ::
'bayot' - full blown gays. very confident sa ilang sexual preference. mostly effeminate dire sa atoa (though im seeing gays nga 'out' na pero still behaves straight, which is rare though).
'maya' - more inclined under 'bayot', but still
in-denial or doesn't want to be associated with gay (effeminate gays, rather) or prefers to brand themselves as "bisexual"/"discreet gay",
despite their gestures showing nga me pagka-mahuyang gyud ni sila. i'd say ala gyud ni silay kalahian sa full-blown one in terms sa gestures.
straight natured/discreet gays - generally perceived as straight, mahibaw-an ra nimo nga gay diay ni sila
if they admit it. still possesses masculine characteristics, and your gaydar won't work on them most of the time. makailad. i say it's not really
acting, its just so happen nga they have more masculine traits over feminine.
:: B I S E X U A L S ::
- i rarely find a REAL one aning klasiha. what i noticed here most are more inclined or would likely fall under gay or lesbian category
:: L E S B I A N S ::
hard butch/'tomboy' - this is very common sa atoa. they behave and portray themselves with dominant masculine demeanor. most likely have a short hair styles
femmes/lipstick lesbians - same with 'straight natured gays', these types exhibit very feminine behavior, difference lang nila with straight women is, they like ladies too. lisud sad ni sila mailhan.
:: T R A N S E X U A L S ::
- most of them, as i noticed, were former men turned female. ala pa ko kita the other way around. they usually cross dress, naay uban chix na ug dating, malabwan pa ang straights! haha. makailad sad. you'd only know nga dili diay ni sila genuine nga females kung mutingog na sila. hehehe
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i consider someone to be of third s3x or LGBT the moment they:
- have sexual orientation with same gender. call it tripping2 or out of curiosity, sama ra na. whether your reason is financial or unsa pay motive nimo, mao japon nang istoryaa. even the idea of entertaining the thought of doing so doesn't make you any different from them either.