Maybe its hard for other members to really make an evaluation as most of their moderator encounter is mainly based on handing out infractions, I've also had my share of bitching when I was handed my infraction for something violation that was done more than 400+ days after, It was an obvious power trip or a total lack of judgement on the part of the moderator but BeoR made the corrections and settled things with the moderator.
A lot of things have changed in istorya especially with the massive growth of members and some might see a moderator as an intimidating person in uniform rather than a member with extended duties handed out to them, inferiority kicks in and this gives them a hostile disposition towards any moderator especially those that handed out infractions.
I also have a hostile disposition towards certain moderators but I've never bitched about them here in the forums as it never fixes anything, maybe a meet and greet your moderator can help ease out some rough edges? In my case ( back in the day ) I've met and hanged out with a lot of moderators and members during an EB (CrashBurn,BitchGoddes,Chronus,Dbgg,Nene,GlassMoon ,Dislove,Albert,phyche_08 and probably a few more that I can no longer remember, these guys are pure awesome if you ask me!
[Sorry for my wall of text]