you think i am being used? AGAIN!!!

[star_capt86]

tama sad, importance, key pod na sya sa relationship...bulagan nko cxa, taz kay halos mawala man iya resources halos tanan, she might come back to me, and i could set the conditions about how we work it out? mao ba? tama ba ako pagsabot? so makigbalik japon ko eventually?

[p26]

lagi brad...love jud nako sya au, gf nko cxa since 2nd yr college, di man cxa ingon ani sa davao katong una, pag abot niya cebu nilain na man iya batasan...

ganahan pod ko nga kauban nko cxa kay usahay sweet, taz usahay maldita, pero grabe ka gastos og grabe na cxa maka manipulate karon, pti iya barkada muadto balay ako pa pagastuhon... usahay maglagot ko ako palayason nlng, nahitabo na sa una pero nalooy ko kung asa cxa stay, naulaw pod ko sa iya parents kay unsa nlng masulti, pero tama bya brad nga mas maau bulagan nko kay murag sobra ra jud kaayo... i am realizing it now, though this may hurt, she has hurt me before, but i think makaya ra man ni siguro...

mga pila ka months kaha bgo mawala ako feelings after me magbulag?

Makaya ra na nimo brod. Mas mayu na one time ra ang kasakit kaysa antoson nimo ang kasakit. Inig bulag, ditso daun ug bar..pag tagay2 aron happy. hihihihi

[cromagnon]

mga pila ka months kaha bgo mawala ako feelings after me magbulag?

the more u divert ur attention the faster , and perhaps have a girlfriend not that u are courting her , just a friend material ,na pde nimo sabotan to act as ur GF ,... para malayo cya, ug maka ingon cya nga wla nka nag gukod niya , and u dont want to be hurt anymore ....also keep urself bust work,hobby , busines etch.

- remember , Mans weakness is women , and reality check imong CC gamiton , lisod au ang money karon .
- u can spend ur money somwer else and may give othe source of fun.
- samson's hair was cut to loose his strenght , daghan na nadaut sa babae , ug bya-an raka ana kung wla naka ma puga.
- Ang kaluoy , dili mag silbe sa relasyon , ay padala , ug dapat maluoy sad ka sa imo self.
- time will come ull be happy with another girl, i understand we guys love girls that are bitch ..
now dont be the one being used, Be the one to use her or other girls or ull be considered wussy .
- money and *** always meet , that prostitution will always be thre ..
- imagine ur self , waiting for her go home from the bar or from motel drunk with other guys , and when she come home, ... wrecked ...
- im sure u love her , pero relationship always want in a way that our partners wil change , but we cant always change a person .
- and do not wait for the time na no turning back na , either u get her pregnant , or she claims u got her pregnant but ur not the father ....

daghang babae sa kalibutan , pde ta magpagamit , pero kabalo until when and if nag gamit pud ta nila..
- weigh things out.

-

[star_capt86]

lagi brad... your thought are much appreciated... i may have acted weak in front of her, but i know what better steps do i do... besides i have all the resources, its just i think i am being stupid clinging to her as if i could generate something... now am realizing... kaya ra lagi ni...

[likyam]

OT: one direct proof na gender does not matter in LOVE.

sagpa sa mga stereotype na kusog manaway ug same *** relationship.

pati gani babaye ron kusog na mangilad ug laki. pangwartahan na, naloslosan pa dyud sa gugma.

may ta oi, puhon maka realize na ang tanang tawo, ug di na manaway unsa pa mai gender preference sa managhigugmaay. straightguy to gay, gay to gay, gay to lesbian, lesbian to straightlady

in short, dili mag SinELF-RIGHTEOUS most straight guys and straight women na makalagot nga murag kinsa makapanaway in terms of gender discrimination.

anyway, para nako noh that woman is not worth at all sa imo. let go nalang dyud ka and cut your CC.

key to LOVE? loving yourself first. mi offer naka sa imo self wa gani kai respeto sa imo self kai imo ra gipasagdan na i T.A. ka niya. una ka mangitag love sa uban, love yourself first.

[CARL10-10]

o0o0hh my... ur not inlove... ur being stupid..

obviously shes just using u...and obviously ur letting her use u..haayy so stupid..
u better get her a$$ out of ur lyf coz if not,,,, ur gonna lose everything bro...

f u prefer being with her than facing humiliation ... i wud say ur def stupid ..
think harder and deeper bro...

in the end ur the one hus going to choose for ur self,, , ,, make sure ur ready for the consequences

[cromagnon]

pero bay , find a way to nga mohawa cya sa imo balay ....
- ive been there , maluoy ka ....

- u might give her a deadline ... to find anohter place , or mo larga ba ka sa lain lugar, para mohawa nlg sad cya , nya balik ka if wala na cya , and dont callher.

[star_capt86]

i understand...sometimes it frustrates to think what she really wanted and if does really love me... and because of this discussion, i have finally made up my mind, i'll kick her off my house and i'll tell her parents what she has been doing same with my parents too...maybe its time for me to get out of this mess... it may hurt, but i gues this is the right option for me... she has gone too far... i dunno what those minions had fed her and she's already and been acting like a pick up girl, nevertheless, i should respect her less and will respect myself more... she had taken a lot of time from me where i could have used that for other worthy things, sometimes she gets more attention compared to my family and friends, my world revolved around her and moving forward i'll make this does not happen to me again...


hehehehe...sa USC main daghan bitaw gwapa basi diay makakita pa ko balik atong mga pretty students this oct.... hehehehe.... i'll try to find someone whose better than her...

[star_capt86]

ahh okay... i thought ako na cxa pahawaon, mao bitaw na ako ginaworry primarily, asa cxa muadto pag muhawa na cxa sa balay, basi sa dalan matulog, gabaha pa naman gamit ato niya... okay, i'll just talk to her and give her maybe 2-3 weeks to find an apartment, get her stuffs out and herself out... finally i would be able to breathe eaiser na...

[star_capt86]

i am pretty sure, i wont be happy for months first and i'll miss her badly.. i am just hoping that i wnt be texting or calling her and asking her to come back... what a weak person i am...