What am i going to do? Do I need to sacrifice everything?

[AshLeyann31905]

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lahi raba giud kaau ang INC sa katoliko.. d naka mu celebrate pasko ana sis? hehe..
naa me supervisor sa work sauna gamay rami nakabalo na INC siya.. pag christmas eve kay ni duol mga tao sa iya beso2x kay merry christmas lagi.. gi snob btaw niya tanan!!! ako nlng abi2x sa mga na shock na wala silay pasko mao in ana siya..
pero ang tabaghak ni kaon pag noche buena nya ni apil pag exchange gift.. hehehe
Gi ingnan pd ko niya na i collect daw iyang payslip sa ila simbahan.. ma syakkk man sad ta. pero mao pd na ila... He's a happy person.. pero very sensitive lang giud ug religion..

ako catholic man ko pero wala giud koy lahi na pag tanaw sa uban religion and I respect all of their practices.. pero d lng ko mu convert.. kay miski sa akong own religion dli ko faithful..

hehe share lang ko

dependi rman pud na nimu...

[AshLeyann31905]

naa ra na nimo TS, you can convert man if u like kung kaya jud nimo..but make sure dili na nimo ikwenta sa iyaha nig minyu namu...sometimes girls needs to make sacrifices for the guys they really love...nga dili ra puros guys ang mag make....

yeah sakto jud ka sisi not all the time nga ang guy mao mo sacrifice..sinabtanay lang gud,

[AshLeyann31905]

if willing ka mag pa convert kinahanglan imong truly purpose and reason is not about sa imong BF kay gusto mo magminyo BUT its because you believe on that certain religion and their teachings. IF not magubot ra unya later inyong marriage and both side na families, so u better analyze and think it over a million times and can go from there. Cause it's easy to ask or explain to your parents if you, yourself do understand sa imo unyang sudlan na life which is the marriage life with INC religion and their teachings.

yes,,ur right.i already understand and d lang kay sa akng bf ang reason nganu m convert ko i already understand sa ila religion i know this kind of situation is not too easy and i need to think this in a million times as what you said..anyway thanks for your advice..

[nijazared]

It should be a civil wedding, not a church wedding...the point here I think is not the religion but the love that you and your bf have for each other...if your parents knew about your 7 year relationship they definitely knew that somehow it will come up to this point...just be honest with your parents...your parents should know which to prioritize, religion or their daughter's happiness....

[AshLeyann31905]

It should be a civil wedding, not a church wedding...the point here I think is not the religion but the love that you and your bf have for each other...if your parents knew about your 7 year relationship they definitely knew that somehow it will come up to this point...just be honest with your parents...your parents should know which to prioritize, religion or their daughter's happiness....

yeah! they already knew that we have not the same religion and all we need to do is to ask permission..before that we need to prepare everything and i need to think it over.

[nakaigo]

mao gyud ni dili nako ganahan aning religion2x oi...
akong uncle ug aunt same sa inyo situation kay of different religion sila..
so, they opted thru civil wedding pero nagbuwag sila kay kana laging religion2x both nila nga families..

pagsabot nalang gyud mo TS..naa man gyud nay kasulbaran bah..

Sincerely,
Papa Joe

[AshLeyann31905]

mao gyud ni dili nako ganahan aning religion2x oi...
akong uncle ug aunt same sa inyo situation kay of different religion sila..
so, they opted thru civil wedding pero nagbuwag sila kay kana laging religion2x both nila nga families..

pagsabot nalang gyud mo TS..naa man gyud nay kasulbaran bah..

Sincerely,
Papa Joe

hai naku Papa Joe....naglibog najud ko..salamat sa pag tambag..btaw we need to talk jud btaw...

[Tindera00]

move on that's the simple thing to do

[Wynna]

I'm not sure with this though,but is it really necessary for one of you to change his/her religion once you get married? I'm mean say for example, the girl is catholic and the guy is muslim, kinanglan jud bah magpa convert? what if civil wedding, no church involved is it really necessary? Kay if it is, I will really choose my religion over that person that I love, coz first of all ,converting into another religion would somehow contradict my belief in God,which would definitely alter everything in me, such as my perception in life, my faith, and everything that goes around me. I grew up knowing only one person above everything and that is God, not even the person that I love the most could reprimand me from choosing God over him. Not even I could reprimand him as well.. Although religion is something that needs to be considered,however I don't believe that it would be a hindrance for you to love someone. Because we all know that LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL!

[brackitz]

Kadaghan na ang nag dayun nga managlahi ang religion TS. Pero ang looy lage kay ilang mga anak duha'y simbahan...haha...

Pwede man mo magpakasal sa ilang religion, then magkasal sad mo sa iyung religion. Dili mana problema cguro kay christians man mong duha.