confused.. need your opinions.

[rebelheart]

Hi guys, i broke up w/ my ex mga 3months ago kay cge ra xa ug promise. he's in dubai and i know nga busy xa mao i understand nga dili xa mka online ug dli xa mka chat nko, but everytime na motawag xa kay daghan kaau xa ug promises, like mag chat mi ani nga time, mo call xa ani nga time, pro wala jud. mag cge nlang kog paabot. and he doesnt even say sorry. inig call nya or inig chat namo balik kay murag wala ra gani niya nga ga hulat ko. pwde man unta xa mo txt na ayaw nlang ug huwat or ayaw nlang pag online kay gkapoy/busy ko. mao i decided na buwagan xa para mausab pro krn wala ra xa gibuhat to win me back. do u think naa na xa lain? and krn naa ga cgeg court nko but ang problema he's older than me. 13yrs amo gap. i kinda like him na kay funny xa and he's really sweet. pro love pa nko ako ex. should i wait for him(my ex), do u think he's worth waiting for or entertain this new guy?

[azaleayve]

It would be best if you'll settle everything first with your ex, at least if you decided to leave there would be no WHAT IF'S, that there will be closure. If he is still into you and vise versa, then it's kinda worth waiting for.,

You are still in love with your ex my dear., So as to this new guy, what you felt was just a transference, he is just a REBOUND LOVE coz he fills the emptiness in you, or let's say kung unsai wala mahatag sa imong ex, siya ang nagpuno.,

It's still all up to you, but you and your ex needs to talk.^_^ i mean a mature talk

[rebelheart]

It would be best if you'll settle everything first with your ex, at least if you decided to leave there would be no WHAT IF'S, that there will be closure. If he is still into you and vise versa, then it's kinda worth waiting for.,

You are still in love with your ex my dear., So as to this new guy, what you felt was just a transference, he is just a REBOUND LOVE coz he fills the emptiness in you, or let's say kung unsai wala mahatag sa imong ex, siya ang nagpuno.,

It's still all up to you, but you and your ex needs to talk.^_^ i mean a mature talk

i swallowed my pride and ni message ko niya sa fb and email pro wala man reply. cguro almost 2 weeks na. last call niya mga 3 weeks ago, he told me he still loves me and again promises to callback the next day pro hantod rn wala na. kapoy bya kaau mag cge huwat. paet.

[farmboy]

@TS: you are indeed confused.. in one line you said "pro love pa nko ako ex".

pero here is this older guy who you find sweet, enjoy a few laughs with..

hmmm.. why dont you open the gates a bit for this older guy.. and see what happens.. just gamay lang.. let him in ur heart to feel how he is really. obviously, your "love" nga tua sa gawas does not care about you no more.. ikaw na lang nag love niya..

[rebelheart]

@TS: you are indeed confused.. in one line you said "pro love pa nko ako ex".

pero here is this older guy who you find sweet, enjoy a few laughs with..

hmmm.. why dont you open the gates a bit for this older guy.. and see what happens.. just gamay lang.. let him in ur heart to feel how he is really. obviously, your "love" nga tua sa gawas does not care about you no more.. ikaw na lang nag love niya..

yep, confused.. very. 8yrs of memories is really hard to let go. that's why hesitant ko for this new guy. we were team mates before and close pod mi. he was always there when i need a friend. d lang pod ko ganahan himuon xa ug "panakip butas" pro d pod ko ganahan maghulat sa wala.

[LeeLeePot]

maypag single sa ka for awhile para wai libog. let the breakup with your ex set in your system first kai murag kao mai waa kadawat nga bulag namu kai muasa pa man ka nga mubalik xa for you. hehehe... settle it first. ayaw pagdali.

[rebelheart]

maypag single sa ka for awhile para wai libog. let the breakup with your ex set in your system first kai murag kao mai waa kadawat nga bulag namu kai muasa pa man ka nga mubalik xa for you. hehehe... settle it first. ayaw pagdali.

you have a point, mao na advise sa ako friends, pro ang uban pod ni ingon nga mas dali daw mka get over if naay lain.. but as ive said d ko ganahan mo use ug lain tao, im taking things slow with this new guy and not to expect anything from my ex.

[farmboy]

8 years is too heavy to give up.. but ask urself, does ur guy feels the same way too? samot kasakit if ikaw na lang ang nahibilin nurturing those feelings.

learn to swim.. in case you have to cry oceans of tears.. your own tears.

[rebelde]

should i wait for him(my ex), do u think he's worth waiting for or entertain this new guy?

kinahanglan jd naa sa duha? pwede man d nimo xa huwaton and d pd ka mo-entertain sa.

[rebelde]

you have a point, mao na advise sa ako friends, pro ang uban pod ni ingon nga mas dali daw mka get over if naay lain.. but as ive said d ko ganahan mo use ug lain tao, im taking things slow with this new guy and not to expect anything from my ex.

mao d.i confused ka kay naa d.i new guy nga nagpahiwatig diha. para nako normal ra nang maconfuse ka labi ng naay mag-aligid2x nga laki nga moingon nga gwapa kaau ka or unsa pa ng bulatik.