How do you control jealousy?

[madmike]

pangabit! hehehehehe

[SixSleeve]

self-control ra na bai... ikaw bitaw nagdala sa imo kaugalingon...

Actually ok ra ng magselos ka bai pero kanang naas lugar... kay sobrahan kaseloso = obsession nana bai..

[GhoStSheLL]

my mantra is..
count to 10 before you say anything/anything
with jealousy, you tend to say all the wrong things.
try it.
might calm you down, tone down that jealous monster inside you

[dallaxz18]

buk-on ang jelousy.. hahahha

joke
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btaw, kng seloso ka or selosa ka, eh sulti lang sa imo uyab ug unsa imong dli gusto..para ma likay pod imong uyab na dli ka magselos,..kay ug modako ang selos, siguro mao nay maka cause ug away and misunderstanding... para likay lng sa selos noh, mag talk mo, dn enjoy2 pod mo sa inyo self..and of corz, sabotan ninyo nga, f ever ani nga sitwasyona,
"dli gani ko ka respond, naa koy ge buhat ana..salig lang nako, total seryoso manko nimo ug wala ko gabinuang.. "

make her feel secure..ug ikaw pod lalaki, pasabta c girl sa imong geselosan..b open with ur uyab..

[farmboy]

buk-on ang jelousy.. hahahha

joke
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btaw, kng seloso ka or selosa ka, eh sulti lang sa imo uyab ug unsa imong dli gusto..para ma likay pod imong uyab na dli ka magselos,..kay ug modako ang selos, siguro mao nay maka cause ug away and misunderstanding... para likay lng sa selos noh, mag talk mo, dn enjoy2 pod mo sa inyo self..and of corz, sabotan ninyo nga, f ever ani nga sitwasyona,
"dli gani ko ka respond, naa koy ge buhat ana..salig lang nako, total seryoso manko nimo ug wala ko gabinuang.. "

make her feel secure..ug ikaw pod lalaki, pasabta c girl sa imong geselosan..b open with ur uyab..

IF you do that.. telling her/him unsay imo gusto ug dili gusto.. you are DICTATING na man gud.. dili pud na maayo brad..

[SixSleeve]

how to control jealousy = control yourself

[nakaigo]

it's either you don't have self esteem or you don't trust her...
start from these and might get the solution...

[prettylicious]

trust your girlfriend...you have her and they don't..what's important is that at the end of the day you still have her loyalty and love... to become jealous is normal for a person who cannot afford losing their loved one..goodluck..

[clinically.dead]

Don't lose the control button.

[nonXpert]

I really love my girl. .. as in love gyud nako sya. Pero dili man sayon i control nga mag selos ko usahay gud. So it often results in big fights nga totally waste of emotions lang gyud.. nasty things being exchanged.. which we say in anger and do not mean anything at all.

Is this feeling just one way? I need help.. yes i admit that. Can I control and suppress this by my myself alone?

How can girls help their guys? I am sure this is easier if the girls realize that selos is a two edged sword..

What I know na normal lang for a person to feel jealous sa iyang gf/bf. For the girls, mas daghan sila og reasons why get selos with their bf. Ako gf as in super selosa jud to the max! Don't know why, but I keep on telling her na dili mo work ang relationship kung wala ang selos, but dapat naa sa saktong reason. And i stay calm. Remember, na if ang selos subra na kaayo og wala na saktong lugar, dili na kini normal and healthy sa relationship coz either you like it or not, this can destroy the relationship. Mahug man gud na f mag sige ka og selos sa wala sa saktong lugar, the same lang gihapon na wala na ka salig sa imong partner. U have to decide, dapat ikaw ang mag control og mag analys sa situation.