first timer lang po...

[sammaybe]

TS remember love is patient and love can w8 until he returns and be with you na jd.. have faith sa nyo love for each other. think positive.

[care_bear]

i agree on this... it doesn't seem to work if you both have felt the distance inside.... been this too already.... gikaluy-an jud sa ginoo... wala jud mo-work....

it's ur call TS how do you handle this crucial situation.... constant communication doesn't seem to fill in the emptiness you felt inside... so, gudluck TS if you both ccan make it...

Salamat. Bisag mag think lang na possible sa ka busy and sa kalayo namo kai wala nai tym kai pirteng lisora na what more sa mga ma happen. Personally, I dnt want to fail this relationship coz we've been thru a lot already. Start pas pg college namo tinabangay nami though medyo childish pako ato sya pod panagsa...then usahay dghan pd panira namo but wla sya padala ako rapod ngpadala mao ngkalayo mi then karon dli ko gnhan mausab gd to. (sigh)

Di d.i mo pwede mag change og network sis?

Had a LDR before, almost 2 years ra hinuon, pero nag work man pud, even though there were ups and downs that time we still came through.

Sya mglisod change, dko gnhan mg bring up bout changing sims kay murag preoccupied na kaayo syas work pra atimanon pana. Dili mnpod gd ko possesive typ nga as in mo demand sad jud..hehe
Wala ko ga ingon nga demanding na mg ask na pailison syag network ha pero ako lang, his sim has been with him for a very long tym already then karn balik mi dli ko gnhan ipa change lang ingn ana ka dali.
Daghan pod ko dli gnhan e-demand niya kay dli ko gnhan nga pakialam ko..hehe
gubot sah? Ako lng ma feel niya naa ko salig..hehe amo gkabuwagan before gd kay tungod anang trust issues. Plus, daku iya responsibility sa iya family. Not a breadwinner really but need jud kaayo niya mgsupport nila, gnhan ko mu detailed unta pero personal matters nman gd..hehe

Then bro, kamu gihapon karon?

TS remember love is patient and love can w8 until he returns and be with you na jd.. have faith sa nyo love for each other. think positive.

I will bro. Thanks! Naka think gni pod ko kong ok na idea nga ngbalik nalang pod mi sa ingn ani pajud nga paagi. Ryt love at the wrong tym kumbaga.....hehe

[s3thk]

naa rman jd na niyong duha bro , im not being negative pro para nako long distance relationship wont work

[ad_dur]

I have gone through a long distance relationship before. For me it was just a waste of time. I spent 4 years waiting for my girl. I get letters and call every week. When it happened. I started to wander why I'm no longer getting calls & letters from my girl. I still waited days gone weeks, weeks gone months till finally I recieved a call from her. It was my birthday she was crying informing me about her new found relationship. What can I do? I let her go,. It hurts but still what I ca do?. Last words I said to her in a gentle tone. If she's happy and if she thinks guy is better than me that I support her new found love. Karon she's still single at 36 walay kids. She still call and text me. Naa siya ka live-in pero wala silay anak.

[care_bear]

I have gone through a long distance relationship before. For me it was just a waste of time. I spent 4 years waiting for my girl. I get letters and call every week. When it happened. I started to wander why I'm no longer getting calls & letters from my girl. I still waited days gone weeks, weeks gone months till finally I recieved a call from her. It was my birthday she was crying informing me about her new found relationship. What can I do? I let her go,. It hurts but still what I ca do?. Last words I said to her in a gentle tone. If she's happy and if she thinks guy is better than me that I support her new found love. Karon she's still single at 36 walay kids. She still call and text me. Naa siya ka live-in pero wala silay anak.

Sakita ani woie.
Then minyo nka with another woman na karon bro?
I just hope nga isa mi sa mga mu survive in this kind of setting.

[OmegaRed]

lisod jud na ang LDR.. if love jud ninyo ang osag osa dha ma test onsa ka lig.on n u relationship.. n u trust sa osag osa... if its work then padaun mo.. if not, then move on...

[care_bear]

Yep. Open ko sa fact nga possible dli jud pero hopeful gihapon ko. hehe
Mayta kayahon jud tawn namo.

[care_bear]

AaArRgG! He's so sick right now. huhuh..wala koy mabuhat kundi mgwait sa rply. He is not answering my call, basin cmbaku na unsa nato. Makayabag ang layu oie...helpless kaayo ka kng msakit mn sya or something... (sigh).
Ako napod sya paadtuon hosp...waaa....

[mudskipper77]

I could say that me and my gf belongs to the elite 10%...i've been committed to her for four years now but we've move into LDR 2 years ago. We still struggle to make it work. I can tell you that it's not like a walk in the park. LDR sucks! but wala koy mahimo kay naa sa layong dapit ang opportunity. Schedule is always a big issue at first but I always make it a point nga ma pun-an nko akong absence. i send her card every single month. even though we always see each other sa skype. lahi ra man gud if naa siya iexpect every month aside sa iyang monthly period. Ang pirme man gud problema sa LDR is lagyo na gani wala pay klaro ang communication. mao akong gibuhat sige ko tawag niya bsta wala koy chance mag online. I don't mind kung dako na akong phone bill(triple pa sa akong plan). If that is the price i have to pay then so be it. In less than a year now, im planning to move back to our country and by that time i know i'll be singing "reunited coz it feels so good..."

I hope i have helped you in a way TS...just give it a try.

Hello people of istorya.net!

This my first post and first thread here.
I hope u guys could help me.
I am in a long distance relationship now.
Now, kani ako BF bag-o pami cgro adjustment period pami.
But we know each other for almost 8 years already.
My problem is, for people here who are undergoing a LDR (long distance relationship) set-up, how did u guys do about it. Yes, it's my first time to be in this type of relationship. Before I really don't agree with this type of relationship but tan-awa asa ko bagsak sa ingn ani ra diay pod. hahah Funny as it seem pero hadlok ko dli mu work out. Karon palang gni nglisod nami kai aside sa lagyo ang signal daginoton pajud.
Sa net chatting pod dli mg abot ang time. The tym he's awake i'll be sleeping then and vice-versa. LDR, naa ramis Phils puros ha. Then samot na ni kai sa ako largahan wala halos signal ang SUN. hahah Nagka anam ang days ngka anam nako na feel ang distance namo from each other.

Hope u guys reply seriously. Thank You.

[care_bear]

I could say that me and my gf belongs to the elite 10%...i've been committed to her for four years now but we've move into LDR 2 years ago. We still struggle to make it work. I can tell you that it's not like a walk in the park. LDR sucks! but wala koy mahimo kay naa sa layong dapit ang opportunity. Schedule is always a big issue at first but I always make it a point nga ma pun-an nko akong absence. i send her card every single month. even though we always see each other sa skype. lahi ra man gud if naa siya iexpect every month aside sa iyang monthly period. Ang pirme man gud problema sa LDR is lagyo na gani wala pay klaro ang communication. mao akong gibuhat sige ko tawag niya bsta wala koy chance mag online. I don't mind kung dako na akong phone bill(triple pa sa akong plan). If that is the price i have to pay then so be it. In less than a year now, im planning to move back to our country and by that time i know i'll be singing "reunited coz it feels so good..."

I hope i have helped you in a way TS...just give it a try.

Shocks..its getting harder. huhuh
Last time niyang sms kai 31st of August pa. And iya gi snd nako he is unwell. And had to go to the hospital for a check up. Then cge ko twag dli mutubag. Wala nako kahibaw naunsa na sya. Til now wla pa syai txt2 nako. kulbaan ko kai taud2 nagud sya ga lain condition. Unsa ako buhaton? huhuh