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[Soul Doctor]

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@souldoc

2.Possible ba ang time travel doc, like makabalik ka sa past aron i correct or undo nimo imo mistakes aron mawala imo bad karma sa future?

as an engineer, based on what we've studied in our field.
it can be simplified like this.

in order to travel back in time, you have to duplicate everything in that time.
including temperature. but we all know that everything is getting hotter.
the universe is getting hotter.
our weather temperature is getting hotter here on earth.

so if you got back in time,
you have to cool down earth at the same temperature during your desired time or target date of time travel.

and everything else is in different order or maybe the world is chaotic.
therefore you have to rearrange everything again to duplicate how it was during that time.

putting the present condition as it was in the time before is very hard to do.
that is why i think it is impossible to travel back in time.

if we could, probably we can only do it in a fraction of a minute because nothing changed to much within that time.

and to some people time does not exist.
so how could you travel through something that does not exist?

[Soul Doctor]

daghan ko na learn diri.

T.Y.
that's the purpose of this thread.

[bj88]

hi..

have u ever felt being betrayed by your bf or x.bf? cheated, perhaps? how did u undergo? or move on?

[Toragsuy2011]

nganu man walay perfect(as in tanan) nga taw?kung naa, prove it bi..hahaha.

[junexpress]

is it normal to get hurt when a friend of yours doesn't gve any friendship attention to you anymore where in fact I did almost everything before just to keep our friendship going. He really changes and he's not the friend I've known before. I'm a man that's why I ask this if it is normal for me, I just value friendship.

[Soul Doctor]

hi..

have u ever felt being betrayed by your bf or x.bf? cheated, perhaps? how did u undergo? or move on?

no. wala pa koy bf or xbf.

[Soul Doctor]

nganu man walay perfect(as in tanan) nga taw?kung naa, prove it bi..hahaha.

because we are not designed to be perfect. look at nature.
naa bay perfect circle sa nature?
naa bay perfect square sa nature?
naa bay perfect straight line?

wala di ba?

its only us that invented the word perfect.
we are all designed to be unique.
from fingerprint to DNA.
how could you be perfect if you are designed to be different than the other person?

the word perfect also is subjective and relative.

what maybe perfect for you is not perfect to me.

dimples is an imperfection,
but why does a girl looks cuter with a dimple than without one?

[Soul Doctor]

is it normal to get hurt when a friend of yours doesn't gve any friendship attention to you anymore where in fact I did almost everything before just to keep our friendship going. He really changes and he's not the friend I've known before. I'm a man that's why I ask this if it is normal for me, I just value friendship.

A mans priority changes with time.

If you are young, you value friendship a lot. infact they could be more than family to you.
That is because you have less expectation than family.

You dont expect much from a friend because it is not their duty to do so.
example, it your families duty to give you money , food, attention or support.
But friends are not expected to give you money, food, attention or support.

so-
if you have a friends who give you all of this
you will appreciate it more than you appreciate your family.

But, now that you are already friends, you start to expect things from your friend too.
this makes you feel frustrated when he doesn't do whatever you expected him to do.
if he doesnt reply to your text or doesnt go out drinking with you you feel frustrated.
that's why it hurts.

You just have to lower your expectations.
And you need not judge him.
Wala ka kahibawo nga mas bug-at pa ang iyang problema kaysa problema sa friendship.

so is it normal to be hurt?
Yes!,
is it a problem?
No.
just lower you expectation and do not judge your friend.

[epoaxlan]

Hi soul doctor, can you tell me unsa jud nang bipolar disorder? please explain it to me thoroughly kay dko kasabot anang mga terms sa net katong nag search ko..

[Soul Doctor]

Hi soul doctor, can you tell me unsa jud nang bipolar disorder? please explain it to me thoroughly kay dko kasabot anang mga terms sa net katong nag search ko..

bipolar...
it means naay chemical imbalance imong brain.
you get abnormal high and abnormal low.

you get manic on one time and you'll be depressed the next moment.
its a rollercoaster ride of brain chemicals.

bipolar man sad ko.

during my manic attacks,
magsige kog palit ug bisan unsay matripan.
kausa, nipalit kog dgahan kaayo nga DVD, pagdie down sa manic attack osa pa nako narealized nga napuno akong pasenger seat sa DVD's.

another time nikaon ko sa mactan shrine dapit.
daghan diay kaayo kog giorder ako rang usa.
Pagtan-aw nako sa bill naulian ko.
Kay P700 plus man tingale to akong nabayran. ako rang usa nagkaon.
Nangutana ko sa waitress kung kinsay gaorder sa ubang pagkaon.
Ako ra man diay kuno.
Mawala man gud ka sa imong self during manic attacks.

And then duna sad kay depression attacks.
maparalyze sad ko kung grabe na ang depression.
naputol lang ang akong tsenilas, giatake na kog depression.
naghigda ra ko sa sofa all day.

mao nay akong experience as a bipolar.