first timer lang po...

[care_bear]

Im currently in an LDR. Im married for almost 2 years, weve been dating for almost 7. Hard sh*t. Dont do it if you can help it. And be thankful youre in just same country.

Oh and it works, but it takes 2 right people to pull it off.

I do hope it too bro. Actually, kami before then ng iyahay og paths nga gi take. But ang commu naa jud gihapon bsag wala na. He keeps on monitoring me no matter what it takes. (and never ko ni make og way pra mu reach out niya before, thru family and friends lang ang monitoring gd niya), then karon nga dghan2 naman jud mi na agi-an nga difficulties separately mao na ni decide nalng nga kami ulit. Pero mao lage ni LDR pod. Ambot sa kto naa pami sa isa ka place kay wla mn pod mi ka huna2 nga balik nalang. Karon layo na dha pa nuon...hahah

[gerard]

cg lang bahalag d kayu nunay maka comu mporante kung naa mu tym mag storya gyud mu or comu mada raman na tanan basta mag tinabangay ramo, waman layu ug doul sa relasyun...

[care_bear]

in my point of view, i dont believe in long distance relationship, since naa juy time nga mo likoy ang partner. more pa kung dugay namo nga wala nag kita.

yes maybe naay maka survive but sus rare ra jud kaayo!

but still naa rana ninyo, communication is the life between imo and imo lover.

I know lisod jud kaayo ang long distance relationship, but you should think of it, if okay ra ba jud ninyo ang long distance of both of you should say goodbye!

Ganiha let go then ikaw pod bro goodbye....kashaket po
Nagkasabot mi pero taas napod tym kaila mi and taas pod tym nga outdated nako niya..but sya cge mn sya update sako life pd bsag wala pami ga balik.

you can do it TS. believe in yourself. talk to your partner the possible circumstances that will occur. be strong enough to face the reality if you don't like the outcome, at least you fight for it.

Thanks bro...Im gonna fight for it till the end. I just hope e-bless ming God sa strength nga mupadaun despite layo mi.
Iya tako dalhon sa iya place pero ni refused ko kay MAS naa pa ko dapat buhaton sako self pra raman pod ni niya bah. Then kong mukuyog ko bsin paminyuon na hinuon mi ako family. Ganahan na rba sila ma minyo nami. hahah

Comparing before and karon i think mas lisud before kay wala pa na mga Online Chatting. wala pa na Cellphone nga loadan ug IDD card not like karon nga naa na tanan. To you TS all can advice is Instant Communication and Pray to God. Good Luck...

waa..I will bro...thanks. Atleast ni gaan2 na ako feeling. Ngka talk nami gniha pero maka sapot jud ang signal oie. Kong dli signal padng napod sya duty. Mao ni, ang mabuhat Pray and Believe in each other's affection.

[reginakrys]

Im currently in an LDR. Im married for almost 2 years, weve been dating for almost 7. Hard sh*t. Dont do it if you can help it. And be thankful youre in just same country.

Oh and it works, but it takes 2 right people to pull it off.

hayyy.. padung pud baya ko magLDR ani..=( mularga to the states akong husband this sept 8, while i'll be reviewing and taking foreign exams. in the meantime, magpetition cya for me and our daughter..

i hope makaya ra namo..

to TS: i also used to think nga LDR relationships are doomed jud, but now nga kami hapit na makasuway ani, cge na kog hope nga naa juy chance..

[care_bear]

hayyy.. padung pud baya ko magLDR ani..=( mularga to the states akong husband this sept 8, while i'll be reviewing and taking foreign exams. in the meantime, magpetition cya for me and our daughter..

i hope makaya ra namo..

to TS: i also used to think nga LDR relationships are doomed jud, but now nga kami hapit na makasuway ani, cge na kog hope nga naa juy chance..

Tama jud na ang saying nga dili jud ka makasabot og taman hangtud dli mahitabo nimo.

I know nag adjust pako sa situation pero dli jud diay lalim oie...tanan possibilities and understanding factors imo najud ma consider. Ang remaining chance nalang kay believing that everything will be alright. Kong ako lang I know very well nga dili ko dali ma inlove sa bsag kinsa (niya rajud...hahah atot kalagot gni.) Maka confused mnpod gd ang intentions niya kay cge syag monitor nako sauna pa then ako deadma rako karon nga naa ako focus na niya kay busy napod kaayo sya sa family niya. His family is experiencing a difficulty now. Sagul nana, emotionally and financially, mao na he really has to work well. And for me dili ko ghan dghan demands niya kay gusto pod ko mo remain iya pgka family-oriented and ako pd dghan pko plans nga sugdan palang nko mao wala ko ni kuyog niya ktong gidala ko niya unta before sya nilarga.

[edgeowns]

I do hope it too bro. Actually, kami before then ng iyahay og paths nga gi take. But ang commu naa jud gihapon bsag wala na. He keeps on monitoring me no matter what it takes. (and never ko ni make og way pra mu reach out niya before, thru family and friends lang ang monitoring gd niya), then karon nga dghan2 naman jud mi na agi-an nga difficulties separately mao na ni decide nalng nga kami ulit. Pero mao lage ni LDR pod. Ambot sa kto naa pami sa isa ka place kay wla mn pod mi ka huna2 nga balik nalang. Karon layo na dha pa nuon...hahah

hayyy.. padung pud baya ko magLDR ani..=( mularga to the states akong husband this sept 8, while i'll be reviewing and taking foreign exams. in the meantime, magpetition cya for me and our daughter..

i hope makaya ra namo..

to TS: i also used to think nga LDR relationships are doomed jud, but now nga kami hapit na makasuway ani, cge na kog hope nga naa juy chance..

Im not gonna lie to you guys, even me and My Wife, came prepared, but right now we are struggling so bad. SO BAD. Someone must be strong if the other cannot. Sigh. Sometimes, and even I hate it, you will feel that its not equal ang pag carry ninyo sa relationship. So one of you must be ready to be mature and strong enough.

Lets just help eachother, PM me if naa mo questions too. And lets pray and hope all will end will for us.

[care_bear]

Personally speaking, swerte ko when it comes to relationships because my family has always been supportive so as his. Thankful mi duha nga dili mi isa sa mga couples nga ng undergo og hard times especially against all odds relationship cases. Lahi-lahi jud tingale ihatag ni Lord nato. Kami Okey na both families, but sangit pod mis environment namo and paths that we chose separately. I hope we will make it til the end. Maka ingon ko I like him so much but for now we just can't be together for reasons that we also have to nurture our relationship separately and maturely. We have lots of plans for ourselves and our families. Though ganahan sila ma minyo nami, kami lang sa ako BF unahon sa namo repay amu parents nga ngpakahirap pra ma maayo mi. Gamay rajud gd na nga butang amo mabuhat nila.

[care_bear]

Im not gonna lie to you guys, even me and My Wife, came prepared, but right now we are struggling so bad. SO BAD. Someone must be strong if the other cannot. Sigh. Sometimes, and even I hate it, you will feel that its not equal ang pag carry ninyo sa relationship. So one of you must be ready to be mature and strong enough.

Lets just help eachother, PM me if naa mo questions too. And lets pray and hope all will end will for us.

This is one reason ngano mahadlok ko ma minyo pod diay..hehe
pero layo2 pako ana jud marriage..hehe
Bro I like your post: "Someone must be strong if the other cannot"; "So one of you must be ready to be mature and strong enough."
Ok bro..I will PM u kong ma unsa mn...waaaa..just thinking about it murag lisod na...I really hope and pray ma smooth sailing ang tanan, though dli mn malikayan naa jud bato2 maagi-an sa relasyon still hoping for the betterment of the situation.

I know trial rani tanan bah.

[solderingiron]

kung love jud ninyo both. e apply ni

temptation is your best enemy.

trust is your weapon.

communication is the best shield.

agree ko ani, hehehehe

[care_bear]

kung love jud ninyo both. e apply ni


agree ko ani, hehehehe

Communication jud always go with Trusting.