What are you scared of in a commitment?

[Le'rei]

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I'm not afraid of commitment, but im afraid of getting hurt in the end...
I'm afraid nga byaan ko...Im afraid he may have a change of heart...in short hadlok pako mo love...

[HeartStops]

im scared of commitment because im scared to be with the wrong guy. I know nobody is perfect but i just dont want a broken family and im scared when talking about marriage because pain is unbearable specially when you have someone you though that would be with you for the rest of your life, and then snap. he leaves you just like he uses toilet paper.

[Cory1986]

hadluk ko ma mabdos. hadlok ko ug minyu. hadluk ko maka anak dayun di nako sila ma raise well.
mag puyo nlng kos daplin ani

[mrinnocent]

afraid of commitment ? i should say .. im not ready yet .. wala pah nako ma set ug tarong akong mga plans nga single pako .. tungod ky naguba akong plans katong kami pa sa akong X .. kailangan sa nako e settle akong plano nga single ko usa pako maka ingon ready nako sa sunod .. tapos plano nasad kauban niya .. hehe

[cyberZone]

Im scared of commitment because I'm afraid that time will come that I will come to realized that she wasn't the right one for me... and that I have found the right person but I am not free to love her because I am already committed to someone else.

Or the other way around...

ang pangutana nganung mangita pa man ug laing right person nga naa nmn nka.pili nman ka.. katong imong gpakaslan?
ky if you allow yourself to look for another then kanang sumthing new will always be called the right one until mkakita nasad ug lain.. and so on..

[beyee]

giving up my freedom
falling out of love
lies and infidelity
bitterness

.. all these scare me so ayaw nalang.
payts nako ako ra isa

[po-po]

im not scared of commitment. its part of life, theres no certainty in life and thats what makes it exciting!

[quirkychinita]

there's always two sides of everything... the good and the bad...

The good thing about commitment? companionship and someone to comfort you on the most bumpiest time in your journey... someone who picks you up when you fall down and that you get to share the happiest moments with that special someone (which makes it really memorable.)

The bad thing about commitment is possessiveness which sometimes leads to jealousy.... But the I told myself why would I fear these bad stuff when I can deal with it? I'm no expert but all I know is that if you really love that person, it's like you're always dealing with two sides of everything.... it's like a battery... it wouldn't work if wala ang negative and positive charges.....


My parents for example.... for almost 40 years of their married life, sige silag away, dad's got involved with multiple affairs during their marriage, but then they're still together... And dad only married one person.... My mom..... They're like yin and yang....


Life's too short to concentrate on the most negative side of things...



Good vibes!

[budoyski]

hearing lies.............

[saulrhyz]

not scared, just not interested in it anymore.