Why man ning mga Pinay nga uyab/partners ug foreigners nga dili man matawag ug gwapa?

[jhoanablaine]

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My American fiance is 22 and I'm 20. Di man ko exotic og beauty and I don't wear skimpy outfits either. We're both punk. Anyway, it's not that they're all into exotic-looking Filipinas. Most nila especially mga guwang na, mao lang gyud na ilang makaya. If they had a choice, they'd be going for younger girls from their own country. Unfortunately, those younger girls prefer guys that are the same age as them or a few years older. So ari sila sa Philippines mangita. The harsh reality is that...a lot of those foreigners are after s*x and a lot of those exotic-looking Filipinas are after money. Both sides can benefit, diba? Aside from that, Filipinas are known to be caring and hardworking. Mahal ang nurse og housemaid sa gawas but if you have a wife that can take care of you, do chores, and satisfy you at night aw okay kaayo especially when your wife only needs you to send like 200-500 dollars to her family back in the Philippines. But hey, I never said ALL. Naa may exceptions, like me and my fiance.

[kuyabog]

it myt be a cute coincidence that American Fiance almost spelled like "Finance"...hmmmm

[ad_dur]

LOL ... ang mga porenger diii mang gud sila kamao mamili basta ang ila manimaho lang tawo mao na na ... most of them wont go for beautiful & smart filipina's mahadlok na sila ma outsmart . mga maru baya ni a2 mga girls .. money motive kaayo ..

[makie]

Kung gwapa para nato, that doesn't mean nga gwapa na para nila
Kung bati para nato, that doesn't mean nga bati na para nila

[mio]

Sila ra mai di ma minuang.

[farmboy]

Fiance = finance...copied that from above hehehe

[precious peng]

My American fiance is 22 and I'm 20. Di man ko exotic og beauty and I don't wear skimpy outfits either. We're both punk. Anyway, it's not that they're all into exotic-looking Filipinas. Most nila especially mga guwang na, mao lang gyud na ilang makaya. If they had a choice, they'd be going for younger girls from their own country. Unfortunately, those younger girls prefer guys that are the same age as them or a few years older. So ari sila sa Philippines mangita. The harsh reality is that...a lot of those foreigners are after s*x and a lot of those exotic-looking Filipinas are after money. Both sides can benefit, diba? Aside from that, Filipinas are known to be caring and hardworking. Mahal ang nurse og housemaid sa gawas but if you have a wife that can take care of you, do chores, and satisfy you at night aw okay kaayo especially when your wife only needs you to send like 200-500 dollars to her family back in the Philippines. But hey, I never said ALL. Naa may exceptions, like me and my fiance.

I guess and obviously we all have biases when it comes to preference regardless of race/skin color. Liking or picking up a, well, a mate is most of the time influenced by the society from which surrounds an individual and. . . eng! eng! eng! MOTIVATION (whatever that maybe!).
I know a lot of "afams" gay slang for foreigners who prefers to be with locals or any other kind of race whom they are not just attracted to but can match up their intellectual and maturity standards.

To stick to the thread, what is mostly seen in public places i.e. Malls prevalent. And while it is true exotic has now been defined as lagom, itom ang kigol, bisan tugnaw hala magshort og murag panty kamubo.

I think it just depends on a person's motivation & preference, foreigner or not. It depends on their education, status quo in the society, this will dictate who these foreigners pick and which kind of pinay welcomes this kind of hmmm absurdity.

Nya asa pa man diay sila mo-tambay ug mag-eyeball? that's the reason why people see them more often and the stigma that it creates.

I have my reasons for my opinion, i had pinoy bf's and yes I am in a loving relationship with an ahem "alien". If I were to choose between stigma and him. I'd choose, oh well! him!


There's always two sides to a coin. . .

[jhoanablaine]

it myt be a cute coincidence that American Fiance almost spelled like "Finance"...hmmmm

Agoooy. Are you hinting something You didn't have to put "American" kay daghan man klase fiance. Naay Korean, Japanese, Australian, European.. But just in case you are hinting something, I work two jobs and my lover being only 22, he doesn't have much.

[francisxim]

Exotic man. LOL

[lejean]

Kay ang ato mga gwapa dire kasagaran kay mg-apas mn pud og gwapo na pinoy or datu (dili gwapo) nya naay sakyanan... basta naay car bahala bati nawong ang lalaki gwapo na nila. Of course, puhunan sa mga gwapa kay ilaha beauty might as well used it to meet guys who are sons of the rich basin d-i mapahiran sila sa gold.

Ngano dili halinon ne mga gwapa sa foreigner? Kay sa ato man gud ang gwapa mestiza, puti, ta-as ilong. puol na nila na they gonna have someone who look exactly the same to their women in their country. Americans and other Caucasians spend thousands of dollars para mgpa-tan makuha nila ang color nato mga pinoy kay they like our skin color. This just shows people are not contented of what they have.

Matod pa sa ako husband: "They are just jealous", regarding ane na thread...

With regards to women na kuyog ana mga foreigner pwerte gamaya sa mga shorts, spaghetti strap, or cleavage pa kau, aw ilaha sad na. I don't know why they have this notion they need to look sexy for their foreigner partner or bf basin hadlok ilogon ni ilaha foreigner.

Ako? Kung unsa ako style sauna pag hiskul og college and when i work homebased, jeans og shirts, mg-tsinelas mao ra japon ako style karon...My mom is conservative and my sisters will even "badlong" me if I wear too skimpy clothes plus ako husband di ganahan na mg-wear ko make-up kay I will look like a hooker (may gane di sad ko nahan mg-make up sukad2x), and di sya nahan palit ko ana shorts na gamay nalang kuwang makita ang behind, kay para ra daw na sa mga way ayo na girls. Conservative pud ne ako husband..

My husband is 31, and I am 26. We both work homebased, he left everything in his country to come here and marry me. Our decision is fixed to settle down here in Cebu and hopefully earn enough money for our future as well as my parents.

To everyone, don't make a generalization sa mga wife or gf sa mga foreigner. Kay you never know love jud d-i pwera na pud na 60-70 years old nya 17 or 15 yrs old a girl. My husband even said there should be a law banning Americans to marry a girl who is half their age or even more kay mura na daw na og pedophile.

Before, I hate looking at women who are married to foreigners or gfs ra gane kay kabalo ko unsa ilaha gi-apas. Karon ako gi-kaon ako gi-ingon I became one of them and it hurts people will always say that maau daw ako kahimtang foreigner ako bana, naka-adto na ba kuno ko sa ilaha, pla na anak namo. People don't even know what I have been through para mabuhi mi duha. It irritates me they asked naa pension ako husband, haler! 31 years old ako bana dili 65 years old. If magkuyog mi duha mo tan-aw jud mga tawo nya one second, nya ngkita nako from head to foot jud ko tan-aw.. I like when I go out on my own kay invisible ko di ko makit-an sa mga tawo.

I hope you guys will have 2nd thoughts on looking down on women who are partners of foreigners esp. if pareha ne sila og age di kaau dako og gap... Kay love knows no race, no skin color, no language... I can't blame most of you for having such mindset kay mao man sd ne tirada sa uban gud minyo foreigner para mahaw-as sa kalisud. Di nalang jud molihok, motrabaho para makakwarta... What an irony.