A lot will disagree ani, pro ako ma suggest is try living with the person first. Dagahan negative connotation ani from church and from our society kay bad lagi ang "live-in2x". Pro sa ako mas ok pa mahibalan nimu ang person fully before minyu'an, kay sa pag uban2x sa usa ka house na'a pa daghan mga bago na personality mangawas. If you are able to live w/ the person and fully accept who they are and who they will be in the future, then go. Lisud bya sa ulahi magbasol, sakit na mahal pa keo ang annulment.