he's dying and you can't leave him but you love someone new

[EightEqualsD]

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if he's really dying then your in a very tough spot... that's all i can say...

[loulee07]

I am overwhelmed with your response..ktw.anan jud ang comment na mamatay ra btw 2 xa..wahaha!

yah!bcn makak lng xa..I only care for him as a friend..and he already wasted his chances..I could not abandon him this time kay aq ra nakasabot iya kinaiya..I let him look for another girl but he wont..I pity him..tsk2..pro wat f mamatay na xa and iya family for sure aq ang basolon..sad situation..

[amnesia]

I think its unfair if you stay with him just because he's dying. If its just because of pity then its best to be honest with him than pretend that you still feel the same.


What if you stayed with him thinking that anyway its just for a short time. Then, several years after makahibaw lang ka na ATIK ra diay!

[loulee07]

maybe he was just lying again..

[amnesia]

exactly! what if he was just lying.. yet again! Pero let's just say ikaw to ang "dying" person, how would you feel if you know that the woman you love is there for you not because she loves you but just because she pities you. I think I would rather let go knowing that I didn't do my part when I had the chance. Love isn't supposed to be selfish, right?

[cassiopeia]

HE said he loves you but then again he failed to show it to you..many times he was given chances but still he spoiled it all..and then another person came and wiped away all your tears..you are so happy with this someone new..but HE said he's dying and HE needs you..

what will you do if you're on her shoe?

will you tell HIM go away even though he only have few months left?

or you'll tell HIM to stay even though you love someone new?

dying sa iyang mata. ma die jud siya ug ako iyang uyab. abusado na siya da.

[loulee07]

@amnesia: Thank you so much! You're right. I'm also sick and everybody knows about it. but I don't begged for them to stay for me. It is so hard to be in this situation. but I'm trying to be fair. Simple reply of friendship, until he'll open his eyes. If it's true that he is dying then I'll follow what the others advised me to do. Staying with him but letting him know that I'm staying as a friend and nothing else. Informing my new love about this situation to build trust and respect.

@cassiopeia: he really is abusado..haha!but I can't blame him maybe because of what had happened to him during his childhood years. leaving him will let him realize his mistakes.

to all who replied:

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR ADVICE. IT WAS A GREAT HELP OPENING MY MIND FROM THIS SITUATION, WHICH IS DIFFICULT FOR ME COZ I'M FAR FROM MY FRIENDS. I DO HOPE, SOMEDAY SOMEONE WILL READ THIS AND REFLECT THAT IT'S NOT GOOD TO FOOL THE ONE YOU LOVE. JUST BE HONEST COZ THE REAL PERSON WHO LOVES YOU WILL ACCEPT YOU NO MATTER WHAT. BUT ON THE CONTRARY, SECOND CHANCES IS ENOUGH, DEAL IT WELL.

THANKS EVERYONE!