Debate about pre-marital s.ex

[3nZ0y]

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In all honesty, the fact that niingon si Joey nga "have *** with me to prove your love for me" already made almost all of the defenses weak. Mao na man na ang given reason (which is so pale) so it is almost unnecessary to give other reasons.

But to share possible defenses, you may mention the fact that they are going to get married soon. They had known each other for a long time so they might be comfy with each other. But in addition to that, they also have to find out if they are sexually compatible. They will be doing 'that' thing in the future as husband and wife so they'd better start practicing it.

As what a host in a gay gar said, "What if the girl's organ is 220 and the guy's is 110, and they will only find out AFTER the wedding, then they have to use an adapter everytime they have ***"

To give a stupid answer, pwede sad ka moingon, pagpili: "I do it with you? or I do it with somebody else?"

[pinoy_09]

Ka-HOT sad aning JOEY wui...

[karyo]

S*X is an act or experience that will be performed and must be enjoyed by both consenting parties, either married or not. Absence of consent from either party could be treated as RAPE...

In today's modern world wherein information is within your fingertips and gadgets "rule" the world, some practices and beliefs also evolved thus, sending some century-old traditions to obsolescence. People tend to explore the previously unknown and restricted areas of humanity thus breaking the barrier of their comfort zone.

Pre-marital S*x in today's world is commonly practiced by consenting parties, but RESPECT with each others' preference must also be observed. S*X alone is not a measurement of one's love but it will add colours to the couple's life thereby (ideally) strengthening the bond. PMS suggests TRUST given by the girl to the guy without reservations. That means the girl entrusted her future to the guy, "que sera sera". Indirectly and unconsciously, the guy fell proud of the trust given to him and felt the sense of responsibility (person to person defers) that was attached to his shoulder which resonates to deeper meaning of love....



padayonon sa sunod gula..... time-out sa....

[jhoanablaine]

Tell Leslie that there are a lot of married couples that decided to get separated or get divorced because of adultery or because they are not happy with their s*x life. She should do it while it's still early. She might regret having married the guy in the future if after a few months she finds out that they're not s*xually compatible. She might think that it's unnecessary at first, but it could make or break their marriage and family in the future. Then let her choose, would she rather be pure until marriage but risk her married life in the future and possibly scar their kids for life for being members of a broken family OR... give up her virginity but learn whether she and the guy are meant to be? Which is more important, her virginity and her beliefs as a Catholic or the lives of her children, that she and her man could ruin?

Find statistics like this:

An annual study in the UK by management consultants Grant Thornton, estimates the main proximal causes of divorce based on surveys of matrimonial lawyers.

The main causes in 2004 were:
Adultery; Extramarital s*x; Infidelity - 27%
Domestic violence - 17%
Midlife crisis - 13%
Addictions, e.g. alcoholism and gambling - 6%
Workaholism - 6%

(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce#Causes_of_divorce)

[THE KID]

another c o c k block....sayop ang approach sa laki...og iya palang tong gi hinay2an og palami iyang uyab..instead nga gi pressure niya.....aw di to kabilibad......

[bowee]

I have a class debate in my religion class (i go to USC, so religion is un-avoidable )

The scenario:
There lived a woman (let's name her Lesie). Lesie is 28 years old and works as a general manager at BPI. she has 8 younger siblings whom she promised to support before settling down and getting married.
Her boyfriend is her high school sweet heart (let's name him Joey) who works as a volunteer nurse. he is one year older than Leslie. They both don't have any plans of getting married currently due to Leslie's commitment to her family and Joey's unstable job.

one night, Joey asks Leslie to have s.ex with him. Leslie says "no" since she thinks that it is only for married couples. Joey says that it is a way to prove her committed love to him and they'll get married in the future anyway.



now... the class was broken into 2 groups.. by drawing slots! so we had no personal choice in choosing a side for the debate. Let's say that YOU were put into the team where u were "YES PRE-MARITAL S.EX!!" how will u defend urself?


To those who are in my class, and who can read this. BWAHAHAHA!

This type of scenario falls only here in the Philippines where it is sometimes obligatory for the eldest daughter/son to support her younger siblings...

Given the thought of even sacrificing their own personal happiness all for the sake of carrying the family burden of having his or her other siblings achieve a better and brighter future for themselves...

Now let's go to your topic Marie..

Since your for the Positive side on PMS..

I would gladly defend the my right as saying, Leslie is already in her late 20's, in as such, She has every right for herself to plan her own happiness for herself together with her Bf - Joey. Though I perceived that Joey has waited for long to have a consummated love with Leslie (after all, sometimes there are grounds that PMS can be an early precursor to marriage), which I also perceived that Leslie isn't the type of a sexually active woman by my account.. (or else she might have slept already with Joey, a long time ago)

So now then, where does this leave Joey? I agree with most accounts here that PMS isnt and will not just be the solely grounds of proving to a guy on how much you love him. It is just a plus, but never a requirement to love someone.

In your story Marie, I take that Joey is almost nearing his limit of waiting for Leslie's ultimate decision...In my opinion, Joey is merely wanting to know what holds for their future together, knowing fully well that Leslie has the ultimate plans pa of supporting her siblings throughout.

On Joey's side...PMS would be his best and readily reason to ask Leslie since he is already tired of waiting on their OWN FUTURE....

Securing a woman thru PMS is like holding her on to a noose, so that whatever happens (whether the consequences of having PMS bores a result or not), it would be a far cry reason to eventually hold leslie from the responsibilities of her family.

Again, Yes to PMS because though no matter how shallow the reason is.. for saying "If you love me.. prove it" (*--- I still believe this is a case to case basis and person to person basis as well.)

I believe that *** is an integral part of the relationship, and in as such.. no lover should be deprived of it in anyway (as long as they know how to protect themselves)

** To those who says that S_E_X should only be done on the grounds after marriage... Pardon me but I don't share your opinion and conservativeness.

Everyone deserves to be love and to give love.... That includes S_e_x. All as long you both two know how to protect yourselves or knows the consequences thereafter)

[cptn_star]

the truth of the matter is that:

YES team members tend to resort to the scientific facts and figures about seks to defend their side.

NO team members tend to hold on the religious teachings about seks to condemn the act.

[fixyourself]

Yes, Test Driven Development mana...

[bofox44]

One word comes to mind, Fornication.

Unsa ni na ReEd? 30??

[orcgod]

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