love therapist

[jack_bauer]

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first thing first.. counseling is not advice giving..
bcoz y? its either your advice could be wrong and your client may be dependent to you which is the exact opposite of the thrust of counseling ~ which is to provide the person the avenue to be his life..

learned it from one of my minor psyc class way back in college..

[jack_bauer]

OT: kana si alexx ug si souldoctor parehas na sila?

"ask me any question about life...
ask me any question about love..."

tsk tsk tsk.. estoryaheee

i for one can say categorically that alexx and soul doctor is not the same person..
y? i recognized alexxxx's number.. he is in my contact list..

and i believe soul doctor is not a psyc graduate he is an engineer..

[rejiel]

sa mailad lang .. tirapi.. inom mo ug kapi...maypa

love tilapi man ni bro...tilapan daw si lab...lol

[EightEqualsD]

sakyan ko daw ni inyong thread be...

ako hilig sad ko manambag... and daghan na pud ko og natabangan...
pero ngano feel nako maayo ra ko manambag pero ang ako love life dili man nindot?
I mean, wala gani jud koy love life...

a brief details of my past relationships:

My first journey on "love life", someone told me, "You don't know how to love"...
The story behind is, namugos ko sa usa ka babae nga higugmaon ko...
akong gibuhat tanan para niya... wala nako nakit-an nga napasakitan na diay nako siya sa wala damha...
tungod sa akong mga stupid desperate moves para lang maako siya...

years later, nakauyab ko og babae nga wala pud klaro... feel nako gigamit ra ko... tuig ra me ato niya... gibuwagan pa jud ko nga walay klarong reason...

then later ato nakakita ko og txtmate nga sweet nako... sige me exchange og messages until nagka-uyab me sa txt... nag-eyeball me... ok ra ang tanan.. pero ako ang na-fall out... ako ang nakigbuwag...
permi ra man sad gud me sa txt.. busy man kaayo siya permi... mag-date gani me, tagsa ra...

few months, nakakita na pud ko og laing babae, 7 months pud me ato, ako ang nakig-buwag...
reason? love ra kaayo ko niya... di ko ganahan...

almost a year nga wala na ko magplano nga musulod og balik anang relationship...
I tried to fix myself then...
having lots of failure relationships makes me feel like I'm not a good person...


then here comes this girl nga nakapaingon nako nga ready na pud ko musulod aning relasyon....
I know how I failed all my other relationship so naningkamot jud ko nga di to mautro...
Pero after pila ka date2x namo, miingon siya nga, "You're just too good to be true"...


since then, diri na ko nagtambay sa istorya.net... tambag2x kunuhay based sa akong naagian...

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wala jud ko kabalo unsay akong ipangutana ron, pero tan-aw ninyo, unsay inyo mahatag na tambag nako??
sa tinood lang, I miss the feeling of courtship... I miss the feeling nga naay uyab....

I think I'm so ready... but then murag wala jud ang babae na para nako...
wala na ko kabalo.... mag-ready to be single na lang jud siguro ko ani forever?....

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dah pasensya aning akong post kung di kaayo klaro... ingna lang ko kung asa ko nagkulang og details sa akong post.... salamat ninyo....

ana jud na bro bsta pili an ky ta hekhek

[coebam2x]

haha nice ka TS

[alexxx]

@reigel - the way i see your story is that you are not ready what love and relationship is. you just want to be in love and in a relationship but you dont want to commit yet. your reasons of breaking up are so lame, signs of no commitment. it is not that there is no girl for you bro, the truth is you dont know yourself and your priorities thats why you cant find a girl that is compatible with you. relationship is not a "buffet table" that you can just try the dish that interests you. make it your own dining table where it is you who personally prepare the dish and eat everything even if it doesnt taste good.

[reigel99]

^^^ I like it alexxx...
sakto lage ka... hehehe "in a way" sakto ka... maka smile man tag ahat nimo....

I really am not ready... thanks for telling me...

[LeeLeePot]

oi alexxx,,seryosoha pud tawon ko oi...T^T

[alexxx]

@leeleepot: im so sorry if i havent answered you. regarding the psychological test, there are actually a lot of test you can try for free but the accuracy of the result may not be that credible. i can't give you a test since i don't have one that is clinically tested. if you are still studying right now, you can just ask in your guidance office coz its free and they can even give you some interpretation

[ArCkz]

@TS.. asa ka nag psych? basin classmate rata