love therapist

[angel_brey]

i can assist you sis (angel brey)) regarding this issue. i dont consider myself a guru but i think i have helpful tips. i would appreciate referral jud

Hahaha do not worry! Mag isig referray tang duha! heheh Thanks sad! God bless!

[EightEqualsD]

ehem subscribed hekhek dghan ko makat onan dre

[jack_bauer]

what is the best way to move on and how likely would one successfully move on without using another or finding another?

what are the most initial reactions of people being cheated in a relationship

sis mo share lang ko ha pero binugoy lang ni nga storya ha.. dili ni pang professional.. and hopefully mka hatag pd insight ang TS ug c angel_brey ani..

sa akoa na kit-an ha kato saona pd nga troubled kaayo ako relationship,... i was able to talk to someone who has knowledge w/ psychology also then the tell me someting about the stages of grieving.. pero dili lang gyud ko kabalo mo explain mao mo share lang ko link ha.. hehehe
http://www.mental-health-matters.com...article&id=508


mao daw ni ang stages of grief ai..
1.)DENIAL
2.)ANGER/RESENTMENT
3.)BARGAINING
4.)DEPRESSION
5.)ACCEPTANCE

in my case dali rko nka human sa Denial stage pero grabi kaayo ko na stuck up sa anger..hehe and through time i was able to have the sense of acceptance pero dugay sd kay murag 4yrs..

ana to ako naka storya in general mao daw ni usual response sa mga taw who suffers loss, and pinaka best solution daw is nga kita mismo kabalo ta o aware ta ani..

xenxa TS ha ng apil2x ko dri... ni subscribe man gd ko..

[angel_brey]

mao daw ni ang stages of grief ai..
1.)DENIAL

When you say to yourself or you compromise things like...
Dili lage! Love lage gyud ko niya! Tungod ra man gyud adtung babae na usa na nagsamok samok mao na dili AKO ang iyang ge choose!

2.)ANGER/RESENTMENT

Ah bahala siya! Mamatay silang duha! Akong gebuhat para niya tanan unya mao ni iyang gebuhat nako! Pweh!

3.)BARGAINING

Maybe if I change this and that, he will come back to me? Maybe if akong e change akong hair style or color or maybe if I change the way I dress, he would come back to me jud!

4.)DEPRESSION

Mag cge hilak kay cge think about the person! Makadungog lang ug kanta over the radio, feeling na nimo gepa dungog2x ka or ge sungog ka sa panahun dayun mag cge kag hilak sa imung dilemma!

5.)ACCEPTANCE

Dawat na gyud nimo tanan! You have seen the bigger picture and have realized that sila na gyud ug sila gyud! They love each other so you will let them be and not be a hindrance to their love!

Sakto ba ko bro Alexxx?? Hehhe

[farmboy]

OT: kana si alexx ug si souldoctor parehas na sila?

"ask me any question about life...
ask me any question about love..."

tsk tsk tsk.. estoryaheee

[LeeLeePot]

TS:..naa pud ko friend nga psychology graduate...d ni bahin sa love ha..but i've been wanting to ask my friend kung pde ko nia hatagan ug test if i'm mentally stable or not. d jud nia ihatag sako kai kung mubagsak ko, klarong xa pud daw mubagsak kai friends mi ug pareho mig pangutok...can you please give me a test??

[alexxx]

@ jack_bauer: bro thanks for the post! you really did a good research haha and you are right with that theory

@ angel_brey: thanks for adding some examples, it definitely made it easier to understand

@farmboy: soul doctor is different. me and the rest here are just trying to extend our help to those in need. this is not a scam or just pogi points, we are serious with this and we treat this thread with utmost respect. thanks for the up

[angel_brey]

@Alexx No Problem! ehehe

Got 1 client kanina about their S3x dilemma! Hope what I taught you WORKS! Updates unya here! heheh

[EightEqualsD]

TS:..naa pud ko friend nga psychology graduate...d ni bahin sa love ha..but i've been wanting to ask my friend kung pde ko nia hatagan ug test if i'm mentally stable or not. d jud nia ihatag sako kai kung mubagsak ko, klarong xa pud daw mubagsak kai friends mi ug pareho mig pangutok...can you please give me a test??

bwahahaha are you going insane na LLP? bwahehhe

[reigel99]

sakyan ko daw ni inyong thread be...

ako hilig sad ko manambag... and daghan na pud ko og natabangan...
pero ngano feel nako maayo ra ko manambag pero ang ako love life dili man nindot?
I mean, wala gani jud koy love life...

a brief details of my past relationships:

My first journey on "love life", someone told me, "You don't know how to love"...
The story behind is, namugos ko sa usa ka babae nga higugmaon ko...
akong gibuhat tanan para niya... wala nako nakit-an nga napasakitan na diay nako siya sa wala damha...
tungod sa akong mga stupid desperate moves para lang maako siya...

years later, nakauyab ko og babae nga wala pud klaro... feel nako gigamit ra ko... tuig ra me ato niya... gibuwagan pa jud ko nga walay klarong reason...

then later ato nakakita ko og txtmate nga sweet nako... sige me exchange og messages until nagka-uyab me sa txt... nag-eyeball me... ok ra ang tanan.. pero ako ang na-fall out... ako ang nakigbuwag...
permi ra man sad gud me sa txt.. busy man kaayo siya permi... mag-date gani me, tagsa ra...

few months, nakakita na pud ko og laing babae, 7 months pud me ato, ako ang nakig-buwag...
reason? love ra kaayo ko niya... di ko ganahan...

almost a year nga wala na ko magplano nga musulod og balik anang relationship...
I tried to fix myself then...
having lots of failure relationships makes me feel like I'm not a good person...


then here comes this girl nga nakapaingon nako nga ready na pud ko musulod aning relasyon....
I know how I failed all my other relationship so naningkamot jud ko nga di to mautro...
Pero after pila ka date2x namo, miingon siya nga, "You're just too good to be true"...


since then, diri na ko nagtambay sa istorya.net... tambag2x kunuhay based sa akong naagian...

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wala jud ko kabalo unsay akong ipangutana ron, pero tan-aw ninyo, unsay inyo mahatag na tambag nako??
sa tinood lang, I miss the feeling of courtship... I miss the feeling nga naay uyab....

I think I'm so ready... but then murag wala jud ang babae na para nako...
wala na ko kabalo.... mag-ready to be single na lang jud siguro ko ani forever?....

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dah pasensya aning akong post kung di kaayo klaro... ingna lang ko kung asa ko nagkulang og details sa akong post.... salamat ninyo....