
Originally Posted by
VinRex
Thanks sa imong point of view.
SD, nganong naa may tao nga kasab an dayun ka bisag tagsa ra kaayu ka masayup(dili kalikayan). Dli sila kahibaw mo recognize sa imong daghan nga sakto nga gibuhat? once masayop ka ingnon ka nga TANGA. mas dali ra mapansin ang imong sayup kay sa sakto. unsay problema ana nila? or asa jud ang naay problem ana? unsay imo ika suggest?
Our brain is wired to remember mistakes.
And that is not a bad thing.
It works for our advantage.
When you make mistakes, normally you would want to forget it ever happened.
But when you forget it, it is bound to happen again, right?
You should remember that mistake to prevent yourself from doing it again.
Forgetting a mistake is also a mistake.
Mao nang tawgon kag Tanga kay gabalikbalik na ang imong sayop.
If you are complaining if your parents are overcritical about you.
that is because they expect that you are smarter than you act.
i have a daughter like you.
she's brilliant, talented and smart. but she refused to study, work hard or do things right.
instead, she does the opposite. she never studied her lessons, never submit her projects and reports on time. she never give effort on her studies.
she just want to play Dota all day and hang around with friends and boyfriend.
Its not about what they say or do.
It is about how you deal with these kind of pressure.
Because you could always use it to your advantage.
pressure is like boiling water, and you are either an egg, potato or coffee.
egg hardens when placed on hot water. meaning an egg toughens up against pressure.
potato softens when placed on hot water. they got soft and give in to pressure.
but coffee has grace under pressure- instead it changes the taste and color of water.
it all depends on how you react against criticism.
you should take it positively.
drop the drama.
i know--they just want you to:
exert effort,
do things right the first time,
try hard,
make them proud
and be a productive member of the society.
they are all for your own good.
probably you are a middle child and its normal to be emotional.
I suggest you react like a winner.
try hard, learn, and take every challenge with a smile.
anticipating a new experience as a challenge not torture.
have a good relationship with your parent.
appreciate them so they will learn to appreciate you.
no parents would want to appreciate an unappreciative child
or nothing is more painful to a parent than to have an ungrateful child.