A Sister or a Monster??

[hatsokolitmelk]

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i don't know how close you were with your sister but I think you should be sensitive that she is in a very difficult situation that's why they transferred back to your house. It's not easy raising kids and having debts or money problems. "Not minding them" meaning wala ra kay tagad nila is like being suplada to them and they feel that they don't belong to "your" house. Once you'll give birth to your own kid you'll probably understand the situation.

[jumper_stage]

give her a drink of cold drinks TS...
dala rana sa iyang kasapot..

give her a chance to explain as well

[crossramz]

i can't get another place yet coz I am living with my parents. I am the youngest in the family. They were the ones who actually invaded us here coz they did not have anymore a roof to stay under. She is working and she can't sustain herself with a decent house to live in because of her never ending debts.

better look for another place ts. mao na ang isa ka rason nga sinugdanan sa away sa pamilya kanang naa na kanya kanyang pamilya himoun pero nag ipon lang gihapon. dili sad ka pwede mo rason na cya ang ni invade sa inyoha kay thinking your on both sides ( pareha namo pamilyado so dapat mo palayo na sa family to start your own).

[ilovedogs]

your sister is in deep shit *literally* - and here you are making her feel she's not welcome. just think about the mess she's in right now, and the reason she came back to your parents' place is because she needs her family to support her more than ever. so what if the bf of your niece is a prick, dnt treat your family bad. no matter what happens, family is FAMILY.

and you mentioned that they "invaded" your house. you're as much as an intruder as your sis if you really see her as one coz you're both in your parents house. it's not yours too.

say sorry to your sis. im a big sis myself and sometimes younger siblings mistake us for being mean to them when in fact id give up my life for any of them. they sometimes dont get pass the strict rules. that's all they see, but when they go a lil bit further, they'd realize i love them all to death DESPITE the differences, and petty quarrels, their stubborness, etc.

and if you cant handle family stuff like this, you better move out. if you cant handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen! )