How do you forget a betrayal?

[cyberZone]

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Hmmm... I'm no physiatrist/phychotherapist (but been a patient of some...), one common thing that the've told me is that it helps to talk about your feelings with someone you trust. It doesn't have to be your GF. Basta someone you can trust who will listen...
In my case, it was my close friend (who at the same time was my girlfriend and now is my wife)...

I felt that when I bottled up my feelings, I made me think more and more about it until it consumed me. Let some of your feelings out... Talk to someone heart to heart.

kasabot gyud ko sa imng feeling ppre.. pero sakto sd cebu_tux nga if u share ur hurt eventully mawala ra na cya.. masnindot gani to the person gyud mismo arn all ur questions ug doubts ug confusions kay ma.cleared up.. lisud sd nang sa lain kay na! bsin ikaw nsad ang mka.sala.. kay ma.wili ka atong isa nga imong g.share ky feeling nimo naminaw cya nmo kaysa sa imng gf... mao lng na pre be open to your gf.. no secrets.. then mu.heal ra nang liba-ung sa imong kasingkasing ky spaltuhon nmn cya ug balik sa imo uyab and in partnership pa gyud with time.. payts na.. ok nka..

[sparkolboi]

forgive, move on and but never forget.

[yiennahs]

wait.. let me clarify, you a girl?

[emow]

it cant be forgotten..... its like a minor leak, getting larger and larger as time goes by....it will always surface whenever there will be future issues.... you just have to learn to live with it...

[kimleeKINO_choi]

your BF/GF betrayed you in past. How do you deal with this?

I forget the betrayal made thru forgetting the person who committed it.Bahala unsa pa sya ka importante nako basta traidor2x na ang storyahan, limtan jud tanan. IMO the more you love the greater the betrayal. Kong big tym ang investment sa feelings kai big tym pod ang kapalit. I don't consider it as an ego dealing but more of a life given but just walks out from it with all the liability left.

More of a: you gave your all and put your life on the line but he chose to pull it off, worst is leave u dying. DYING ha..he's there but just chose to watch u struggle for life.

[petketz]

just let the time to forgive and forget mao rana