Torn in Between

[Cory1986]

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Waaaa!! buwagi ang iresponsable nga guy oi!! grabeh ra sad na ka lazy wui. ako ha, bahalag gamay ug sweldo ang guy basta ipakita nia nga his working. paeta sad ana wui

[handurawan]

grabeh sad nang tawhana katapulan oi.... di sad na sya deserving para sa imong friend oi... sus kadaghang lalaki nga mas labaw pa anang tawhana ah.. but you said, ur friend is still in love with that guy, that is where confusions set in...

[leyum]

biya ayaw dugaya hahaha... y prolonged the agony?...

[pinkcount3ss]

buwag na lang sila sa guy.. pero unta iyang reason sa buwag nila sa iya bf kay tungod wala sya sense of resposibility.. dili tungod naa na sya nahan lain...

[Iamalbertrebs]

Is this for a friend or imo? >.< :

[naftal]

do not waste time. gf mo gasto sa date? wtf, ka inutil sad sa bf ug mao na

[naftal]

kung ingon ana naman lang gani.... biyaan oi.

uyab pa gani pa gasto na. much more if they will live together.

[petketz]

sayon ra daw e sulti kay sa buhaton bai ana akong friend.hehe bitaw she's weighing things paman pud iya sa daw e think a million times before siya mo decide para daw if fixed na iya mind there's no turning back na daw..

how long paman for her to think a million times? another 9 years?.....
decide now before its too late...

[Insanitarium]

If I were your friend, I'd dump the BF. Your friend doesn't really love him. She's just pitying the BF and succumbing to the pleas of his family.

The guy is irresponsible, passive, unmotivated, lazy, dependent. Practicality's sake, even love just ain't enough with the economy nowadays.

The way I see it, if she starts a family with the current BF, she will end up raising him, the kids and his family. Even the quality of raising children will decline. It's too early to say really, but if he's always like that, the ending and her demise is plainly predictable. There will be mostly regret, hatred and bitterness in the end. Take note. Guy is an addict with no own income. Where will he get funds aside from his auntie? You can't and must not stick to a guy hoping you will be able to change him for the better (and be content to be the one to have changed him). They just won't and will not. They can only do that themselves. And he certainly isn't showing promise.

If your friend likes the other guy and he is financially stable, well-liked by the family, then there is no problem. Grab that gold now. Not because of a materialistic sense. It's also practicality, but there is love in it still, right?

It's really only a matter of ending everything between your friend and the BF.

[KASAAC]

Hell 9 years?! DMD oi! hasula, pabuwagi na sis...