Mga Bro & Sis, How would u control ur anger?!Anger Management!!

[twistedANGEL25]

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I listen to music.

[KateDaGreatest]

Maminaw ug saba nga music. Muhilak. Mu syagit sa unlan.

[THE KID]

og pwede pako mangutang og redhorse sa tindahan...wagtang ang kalagot........

[fairylady]

uhm, for me hangang kaya pang tiisin, hindi ako magagalit, at sa bahay na lang ako mag rerelax....

[salbahis]

i just stop and take a very deep breathe, and close my eyes for couple seconds... then thats it my anger is controlled, im a controlled freak!!, before if i get mad, i will grab anything what hand can hold on to and throw/hit him hard till my anger i satisfied...

[crazy_monkey]

ingnan nako akong kaugalingon ug "ALL is Well"

[ain]

Hmmmm... Everytime if we are in this kind of intense situation with a very intense feeling kay morag ato nalang mahunahunaan permi kay iboga nalang gyud tnan insulto sa tawo na atong kalagotan...

Some people would attempt to kill the person sa kalagot... Pero there are still things na mabuhat nato para ma control ang atoa anger...

We should control our anger before it controls us.. Mao ni aq na learn:

Understanding Anger Laterally

From a lateral viewpoint, the answer is often an eye opener for many.

What if you were told your anger had nothing to do with the world around you, your environment or the actions of others?

Well, that is exactly how it is. Your anger is purely an inability (or disability) to react to your environment with a socially acceptable response system. The problem is entirely yours - It is all you and therefor is the responsibility of yourself to control and harness entirely without blame for others or the world around you.

Fortunately you can take solace in the fact that there are many that suffer from the anger affliction and yet control it appropriately. There is also a number of things you can learn from the the actions of those with a more passive approach to living - We can all learn a lot from those fortunate others.

An ill tempered person reacts with anger often towards a situation because of fear and a high expectation of the probability of events. Either they react with anger due to a constant disappointment, because their expectations are never met , or they react to the fear of an action or event with anger as a protection mechanism.

A person with low expectations of probabilities often have an easier time reacting to the world around them without exhibiting such bad tempered reactions because they are not set up for constant disappointment.

Then there is the issue of self control - No matter how you assess it, a lack of self control is an innate lack of discipline and you must take responsibility for this before you can move forward.





Self Control

Some people seem to have self control in bucket loads, while others appear to have a complete lack of it. Fortunately there is no secret (which is actually fantastic), as the key to exercising control over your anger is all in your discipline and the level at which you respect the value of self control.

When you see personal control as a extremely valuable commodity it opens your eyes to a new paradigm of possibility. Those who actively seek to enhance this very personal aspect of their lives can build an internal strength that makes the weakness of anger seem exposed.

Your intention to learn ways of controlling your anger is a vital first step. With the intent and the knowledge comes a base, but the discipline is by far the hardest and not surprisingly the most important factor in controlling your anger in the long term.





Discipline

Weakness and excessive anger go hand in hand. At some point one must be aware of this weakness and to a point be ashamed of this personal trait. Shame is a heavy word but in this case it is a self evaluating tool that can actually do some good.

By refusing to hold bad temper as an acceptable trait an ill tempered person can then proceed to take the appropriate measures to ensure they develop a more disciplined approach to the world.

At the core of discipline is usually a desire and if your desire to control your temper is strong then you can build up a habit of making more passive responses to disappointing circumstances, but if your desire is weak and you don't accept the responsibility as yours alone then change will be next to impossible and your discipline will be found waning.





Desire - Responsibility - Necessity

By taking ownership of your faults and understanding the absolute necessity to change, you can begin to develop a reactionary process that you can be proud of.

Many bad tempered, aggressive people desire to be like the passive people who seem to have such a calm and collected response mechanism, by holding these passive people as role models you can seek to emulate their behavior and train yourself to take a more passive course of reaction.

Anger management control starts with the desire to make a change.




In Conclusion

Once you have decided learn how to control your anger, you can now begin the next step in the journey to self control. The next article called Anger Management Tips can help you discover ways to deal with certain situations in an appropriate fashion.

Living without anger is empowering. Anger can destroy the lives and happiness of many people around you including your own. A bad temper can socially ostracize you from friends and families, not to mention prevent new relationships from developing.

Increase you own personal happiness by taking control - We wish you success.

[jumper_stage]

adto nalang sa simbahan og asked God for guidance



"love you enemy" forget it

[nijazared]

ako wifey grabe ka yawyawan...as in, gamayng sipyat hala grabe na dayon mu machine gun iya baba...pero kasabot ra man ko...naa lng jud times nga below the belt na kaayo then masuko na sad ko...pero after the night, ma okay ra man sad...now I understand its just her way of letting it out and she does it rather than keeping it all in and then someday just bursting it all out in one go(which would really be disastrous).

[handurawan]

magduwa ug counter-strike... haha