third party

[yvonne6]

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im sure this will make u feel better ts, taas2 ni but your experience isnt even close to mine. broke up a million times in almost 7 years but i hang on because we have a 5 year old kid and i was hoping one day maka amgo ang akong guy (now of course my ex). ang kapaet, dili lang cheating with other women but naa pud ang barkada in between namo. ok ra baya unta because i dont own his life, ang kapaet, akoy provide tanan since wala siyay work for the longest time and if ever ako siyang i remind sa akong effort, he would call it pamuyboy. to cut the story short, ako moy sole provider karon sa bata and siya sige lang gihapon ug padayun sa iyang happy go lucky life, i learned from his bro mismo nga ga drugs2 na daw siya and i believe him kay iyang mga friends mga adik man pud kaau. he kept his fb account from me and added all his friends who knows me too and this what hurts me most. wala gani pic sa among anak didto. gipakita niya sa tibuok kalibutan how tanga si yvonne not knowing he has a fb acct that doesnt even have my pic. i even saw comments from his online affair, ga hon2 sa fb, sa wall ha? ug unsa kasakit nga ikaw nga ni stick niya at the lowest point of his life, wala gani kay pic sa iyang fb? wala gani pic sa among anak? yet these people who encourage him to ruin his life, valued kaau niya? kamo kuno ana beh? suko siya kay daw sige kog yawyaw diris istorya, but did i ever mention his name? did i post a pic of him or his friends? sila ray nakahibalo ug kinsa sila. is that comparable to having fb acct with all your happy pics with your friends and not a pic of a woman who bought even your underwear? tanga lang jud siguro ko. pero i know that there will come a time nga mag basul rana siya ug ma karma and its happening to him now. ts, this will also come to your ex. lingin ang kalibutan, its never a good idea to play people's feelings. u will not wish something like that will happen to others because its one hell of a painful experience indeed

[2kELEVEN]

im sure this will make u feel better ts, taas2 ni but your experience isnt even close to mine. broke up a million times in almost 7 years but i hang on because we have a 5 year old kid and i was hoping one day maka amgo ang akong guy (now of course my ex). ang kapaet, dili lang cheating with other women but naa pud ang barkada in between namo. ok ra baya unta because i dont own his life, ang kapaet, akoy provide tanan since wala siyay work for the longest time and if ever ako siyang i remind sa akong effort, he would call it pamuyboy. to cut the story short, ako moy sole provider karon sa bata and siya sige lang gihapon ug padayun sa iyang happy go lucky life, i learned from his bro mismo nga ga drugs2 na daw siya and i believe him kay iyang mga friends mga adik man pud kaau. he kept his fb account from me and added all his friends who knows me too and this what hurts me most. wala gani pic sa among anak didto. gipakita niya sa tibuok kalibutan how tanga si yvonne not knowing he has a fb acct that doesnt even have my pic. i even saw comments from his online affair, ga hon2 sa fb, sa wall ha? ug unsa kasakit nga ikaw nga ni stick niya at the lowest point of his life, wala gani kay pic sa iyang fb? wala gani pic sa among anak? yet these people who encourage him to ruin his life, valued kaau niya? kamo kuno ana beh? suko siya kay daw sige kog yawyaw diris istorya, but did i ever mention his name? did i post a pic of him or his friends? sila ray nakahibalo ug kinsa sila. is that comparable to having fb acct with all your happy pics with your friends and not a pic of a woman who bought even your underwear? tanga lang jud siguro ko. pero i know that there will come a time nga mag basul rana siya ug ma karma and its happening to him now. ts, this will also come to your ex. lingin ang kalibutan, its never a good idea to play people's feelings. u will not wish something like that will happen to others because its one hell of a painful experience indeed

sakita ani miss yvonne wue huhuhu ..... Anyways, thanks sa pag share sis ... Naka learn ko from your experience... and im glad inspite sa mga nahitabo sa imo life you remain strong, og swerte ang imo anak sa imoha coz naa gihapon ka para sa iyaha future...! Be brave always okey (Coz naa tay lig-on nga big Bro sa ato heart), will include you sako mga prayers... =)

[yvonne6]

^^thanks. i have down times too. im not a superwoman nga ingon ana jud ka strong. i just had to continue with life no matter of the obstacles, life has been very good to me, so i dont complain. we cant have it all man kuno daw. i just dont understand how other people can easily decide to be very selfish yet their selfishness is rotten from inside and they dont even realize the kind of person they are now. basaha to akong usa ka thread nga when karma comes knocking diri sa relationship section pud. my ex didnt even realize how i valued him inspite for what he is now, as in, he is nothing jud for most people, for me, for a long time, he was the man i love and the father of my son but para niya, when i just want him to be a father to our son, pasanginlan naman hinuon ko nga gusto ko makigbalik. makalagut kaau. i dated someone from istorya last year, yet my ex became paranoid and he was really mad and upset about it that the other guy was threatened. nipalayo na lang. and then, wala raman diay gihapon, he continued treating me like shit. wala ko kasabot, he didnt want to treat me nice, yet he doesnt want me to move on and be happy. sakit man diay sa iyang pride mangita kog lain, y na lang dili siya mag tarung?

[acecrystal]

faeta pud anang third party ui..even more when you figure it out by yourself..why can't these air headed cheaters be brave,make choice and bare to tell the beloved there's someone new? Would anyone love to stick with a chronic liar anyway?

[calar]

im sure this will make u feel better ts, taas2 ni but your experience isnt even close to mine. broke up a million times in almost 7 years but i hang on because we have a 5 year old kid and i was hoping one day maka amgo ang akong guy (now of course my ex). ang kapaet, dili lang cheating with other women but naa pud ang barkada in between namo. ok ra baya unta because i dont own his life, ang kapaet, akoy provide tanan since wala siyay work for the longest time and if ever ako siyang i remind sa akong effort, he would call it pamuyboy. to cut the story short, ako moy sole provider karon sa bata and siya sige lang gihapon ug padayun sa iyang happy go lucky life, i learned from his bro mismo nga ga drugs2 na daw siya and i believe him kay iyang mga friends mga adik man pud kaau. he kept his fb account from me and added all his friends who knows me too and this what hurts me most. wala gani pic sa among anak didto. gipakita niya sa tibuok kalibutan how tanga si yvonne not knowing he has a fb acct that doesnt even have my pic. i even saw comments from his online affair, ga hon2 sa fb, sa wall ha? ug unsa kasakit nga ikaw nga ni stick niya at the lowest point of his life, wala gani kay pic sa iyang fb? wala gani pic sa among anak? yet these people who encourage him to ruin his life, valued kaau niya? kamo kuno ana beh? suko siya kay daw sige kog yawyaw diris istorya, but did i ever mention his name? did i post a pic of him or his friends? sila ray nakahibalo ug kinsa sila. is that comparable to having fb acct with all your happy pics with your friends and not a pic of a woman who bought even your underwear? tanga lang jud siguro ko. pero i know that there will come a time nga mag basul rana siya ug ma karma and its happening to him now. ts, this will also come to your ex. lingin ang kalibutan, its never a good idea to play people's feelings. u will not wish something like that will happen to others because its one hell of a painful experience indeed

thanks for sharing. hmm yeah, yours was also very painful, im glad u have moved on already sis. i really hate the fact nga u did everything for the guy and did everything to save the relationship yet u failed kay nagpalabi silag biga2 sa bag.o ra nila nailhan nga girl. tsk.

as for me, kato pag bday nako when he broke up with me again, in my house pajud with my fam, i cried my heart out and fainted. and naa pa xa ato. he was the one who comforted me, nagbalik napud mi and in the end of the day nagbuwag napud.
katong day before my birthday niadto xa sa school to enroll, i volunteered to go with him kay returnee student man siya, daghag hasul, para atleast makatabang ko. while maglakaw mi kay mag una2 siya, kasab.an pa ko kay langayan daw kaayo ko mulakaw, ug magtaxi mi kay mag una ug sod, and when we had our lunch kay iya kong gnawng ug ingon nga "wa na lagi tay chance, so ayaw nalang ug expect" since that day i never eated for about 2weeks. i never thought to hear that from the man whom i thought would never let me go. grabe kasakit.
but, one of the things that motivated me to move.on and thought nga ma.ok rajud ko in the end was the stories i heard from a lot of people, like you sis. there experiences was lot more hell that mine but in the end na ok rajud cla. nakaana jud ko nga sure ko ma.ok rajud ko.

[calar]

you are asking a question which is only you who can answer...sakto ba?...hehe

IMO,thought not related sa imong thread but for me lang ha...maybe the reason why the guy keeps on communicating with you slowly is becoz na karma man gud siya..siya nasad gibinuangan sa girl..gihimo sad siyang option so asa paman diay siya padung? edi balik sa iyang past and he is maybe assuming na ganahan pa ka niya so mao na cge pa sya tx nimo....hoping na magkabalik mo kay natagam na sa karma lol

i don't know, i asked him about sa girl but as usual he denied, but his friend confirmed that he really is going out with this OTHER GIRL. ambot lang unsay iyang gusto. bahala nalang ni siya :P

[calar]

faeta pud anang third party ui..even more when you figure it out by yourself..why can't these air headed cheaters be brave,make choice and bare to tell the beloved there's someone new? Would anyone love to stick with a chronic liar anyway?

pait jud. XD
i dont know why he cant tell it to me.but maybe because he blamed me for the break.up and he's afraid nga the blame will be unto him na. pero sorry siya, im good at spying people, i found it out in the end jud.

[browniies]

sa iJUANder pa

why boys look for other women?

psychological : inferiority
sociological: masculinity

nya maka-ayo ba kaha na sa?
masakit pa lang ng pareho ana nila ui..

[yvonne6]

i have a coworker friend who shared her story to me. ako lang pud i share ninyo. ang iyang bf karon kay minyo, naay mga anak tua a province, ang asawa, naa nay laing lalaki ug namabdos pud sa laing guy, i mean, ang bf sa akong friend, mao na iyang situation. sa pag buwag sa guy sa iyang wife, naa siyay mga laing affair before nagka sila sa lalaki. ang lalaki nagka gf ug iya lang gigamit, iyang gipanguartahan ug gibinuangan. but here comes my friend karon, ang lalaki ang nabuang pag au niya nga iya lang gani daug daugon ang lalaki. ang lalaki ang nagbuhi niya sa pila ka months walay trabaho akong friend ug spoiled kaau ang akong friend. mag away sila iya lang paka uwawan ang lalaki ug ingon, puta ka pagka laki, nanggamit kag babay niadto para lang sa imong personal gain. pero karon, nakarma ang lalaki, ang babay napud ang ga daug2 sa iyaha. ginahimo gud sa guy tanan para sa akong friend, palit iya mga clothes, shoes, bags, hatag money allowance, hatag money paparlor...naka ana gud ko, my gosh, unsa kahay feeling sa lalaki noh? siya napud ang nakarma. pukawon pa gud siya sa akong friend para patimplahon ug gatas kay gusto mo inum gatas ako friend, ang ending, dili ra diay imnun. im sharing this kay moabot ra jud na sa point nga ang lalaki, mobalik na nila tanan nilang binuhatan. they will learn their lesson the hard way. trust me. masakitan man tang mga girls pero ug nice ang qualities nimo as a person, u should not be worried, somehow naa jud maka realize ana, and other men will like you for who u are, moabot ra jud ang sakto na person nato

[calar]

i have a coworker friend who shared her story to me. ako lang pud i share ninyo. ang iyang bf karon kay minyo, naay mga anak tua a province, ang asawa, naa nay laing lalaki ug namabdos pud sa laing guy, i mean, ang bf sa akong friend, mao na iyang situation. sa pag buwag sa guy sa iyang wife, naa siyay mga laing affair before nagka sila sa lalaki. ang lalaki nagka gf ug iya lang gigamit, iyang gipanguartahan ug gibinuangan. but here comes my friend karon, ang lalaki ang nabuang pag au niya nga iya lang gani daug daugon ang lalaki. ang lalaki ang nagbuhi niya sa pila ka months walay trabaho akong friend ug spoiled kaau ang akong friend. mag away sila iya lang paka uwawan ang lalaki ug ingon, puta ka pagka laki, nanggamit kag babay niadto para lang sa imong personal gain. pero karon, nakarma ang lalaki, ang babay napud ang ga daug2 sa iyaha. ginahimo gud sa guy tanan para sa akong friend, palit iya mga clothes, shoes, bags, hatag money allowance, hatag money paparlor...naka ana gud ko, my gosh, unsa kahay feeling sa lalaki noh? siya napud ang nakarma. pukawon pa gud siya sa akong friend para patimplahon ug gatas kay gusto mo inum gatas ako friend, ang ending, dili ra diay imnun

hmm it was karma for the guy, but your friend should not do it as well. basin makarma pud xa in the end. if she really wants the guy to suffer then better break up with him, it'll surely make him suffer if he really loves your friend.