Ask Soul Doctor any question about life

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soul doc ikaw na ang naa sa imo avatar? if so pareha lagi mo og nawng ni carlos santana, is there any chance nga ur related to him?

[xavisimao]

I would like to ask politely pinoy_09, xavisimao, coco crunch and company to get off my back.
you dont know me. and you dont even know what i do here.
i save one life here through istorya.
this is really a good place for me to help people.

two years ago one lady istoryan pmed me to help his bestfriend.
he lost all hopes and he planned on taking his own life.
he's got loads of problem.
his name is Stan.
He is from Quezon City.
His wife left him and took their two kids with her.
He has no money and got loads of credit card obligations.
And he was about to lose his job.
that is why he wanted to kill himself.
He was really depressed.

So when I heard about it from his lady friend,
I gave her my personal number and told her to let him call me.

he texted me and i gave him P100 pesos load.
He said "why did you load me p100? what for?"
I said because you are my friend.
And you would not leave without paying back your friend would you?
He said its the first time someone made him laugh.
then i asked him about his problems.
traced his depression back to his childhood.
the rest is history.
i managed to give him hope. thats all he needed at that time.

Weeks later i got a text from his wife, he said whatever i did to his husband, she was grateful for it.
they are still apart but she sees him as a better person now.
She just texted to say thanks.

then I got a text from stan.
he said he is saving money because he planned to travel to cebu just to see me.
He asked my shirt size because he wanted to give me something as token of his appreciation.
Actually no token necessary for me.
i just want to help people.

If some of you could remember I also have group sessions before where we discuss solutions on personal problems with some istoryans. we have meetings every saturday evening..

So if you could please leave me alone.
maybe i can help more people here without you attacking me all the time..

well good for you if the story is true...

come on we all know you, that you're ego is as wide as the pacific ocean, that if somebody is against your "profound beliefs" you easily brand them as bullies...you always wanted to be praised and all people will bow down to your "wisdom"...grow up boy

[scriptologist]

Soul Doctor is a good man, he has no bad intentions to anyone, he just want to give advice to those who asks. Any personal issues he have are irrelevant to the goal of the thread. For me, most, if not all, of his advice makes sense. So continue your journey Doc, if that's what you believe in.

[juan penduko]

sd: i am a bosconian. i go to church every sunday or even everyday when i was in college. i go to confession every week when i was in high school and college. but this last two years i just lost steam on going to church every sunday. i went to confession about missing sunday masses but still i missed them over and over again. what is wrong with me?

sd: ot ta gamay: how do u compute ur swertres numbers? hahaha

[juan penduko]

wait. clap clap sa ta ni SD b.

[Soul Doctor]

SD, ngano dili man pareha tanan tao? i mean, kanang gipanganak sila nga datu ang uban dili, naay uban nagkamang sa kalisud, naay uban waldas lang. naa bay fairness and equaility(dili pinilosopo nga answer ha? i know fairness and equality naa sa dictionary)? maluoy baya ko sa street children, unsa ilang kaugmaon(i know naa sa parents ang usa sa reason, ako lang ni i associate sa answer ni florida.blanca sa lain thread about RH Bill(katong hot seater cya), agree ko nya sa panglantaw sa RH Bill). na swertean lang ta nga nakaiskwela ta, nya naa ta sakto budget sa kaon ug uban pa.... ngano ang uban wala may gikaon?

if you are going to follow the christian thinking, then you will have a hard time answering this one.
Ang closest they could say is pagbuot man gud tanan sa ginoo!

but if you follow another belief, like reincarnation and karma, then it is easy to answer these questions.
Still i ask you to ask your question one at a time.

1. Nganung dili man ta pareha tanan.
God designed our DNA to have a random combination of G,A,C,T.
We are all designed to be unique individuals.
From finger prints to facial and physical features.

2.) Nganung naay Datu og naay pobre?
katung datu mao tong mga kalag nga gipremyohan og kaharuhay.
tungod kini sa ilang makugihong paningkamot sa ilang niaging kinabuhi.

Katung pobre, mao kining nagusikusik sa ilang kwarta sa una nilang kinabuhi.
Isip silot gipakatawo sila nga pobre ug naglisodlisod aron sila makat-on nga ang kwarta ug kaharuhay ayuhon paggamit og dili abusuhan.

Sama anang mga street children, mao na silay mga kalag sa ginikanan nga nagpasagad sa ilang mga anak sa ilang unang kinabuhi. karong gipakatawo silag usab isip anak sa nagpasagad nga ginikanan. Karma or universal justice ang tawag ana.

[Soul Doctor]

sd: i am a bosconian. i go to church every sunday or even everyday when i was in college. i go to confession every week when i was in high school and college. but this last two years i just lost steam on going to church every sunday. i went to confession about missing sunday masses but still i missed them over and over again. what is wrong with me?

sd: ot ta gamay: how do u compute ur swertres numbers? hahaha

something happened with your belief. Maybe some of your prayers were not answered and you lose a little faith. But that is not so bad. If you matured spiritually you begin to question your belief.
Ive been there too. that is why i have no religion now.

OT: adto lang sa swertres thread kay fully explained na didto ang akong techniques.
But they are all based on statistics. gisimplify lang nako para masabtan.

[Soul Doctor]

Soul Doctor is a good man, he has no bad intentions to anyone, he just want to give advice to those who asks. Any personal issues he have are irrelevant to the goal of the thread. For me, most, if not all, of his advice makes sense. So continue your journey Doc, if that's what you believe in.

I appreciate your support bro.
thank you very much.

[elord]

normally ang tawo nga hambugero kato nang mga tawo nga naay insecurities.
pananglit dili ka gwapo,
manghambog ka nga bright ka
or mas daghan kag talent
or mas daghan kag friends
or mas daghan kag kwarta.

it is their way of compensating for their insecurities.


i strongly agree with this one. I meet people nga mag power tripping salig naa sa position but to think ilang gi cover ilang insecurities that they are not worth it on that position. Insecurities para sa mga tao nga naa low esteem ug wala salig sa ila kaugalingon. Tnxs Doc appreciate naku ni nga message.

[Soul Doctor]

Having no religion means what to you? It's a matter of choice but is this acceptable especially in our culture? Thanks Doc.

i dont mind what our culture says about having no religion. if it works for me,
then i feel satisfied with what i am.

if it is acceptable or not, i really dont care.

as long as i believe there is a god, then religion is not important.
too many religions now, its easy to get confused.
but without religion, the world will be a better place.

"Imagine there's no Heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today "

"Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace"

from the song imagine by john lennon.