Ask Soul Doctor any question about life

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Its also boils down to relationships.

I said this once and ill say this again.
Relationship is the most important thing in this world.

If you have good relationship with your parents, they help you anyway they can.
Maybe the family you mentioned have good relationships with their parents.
Maybe their brothers and sisters helped them out too.

And if the are into business, then those good relationship can bring in more for the business.

Im saying maybe you need to improve your relationship with your family.
maybe you need to improve your relationship with them lucky ones.
if you have good relationship with them, they would not hesitate to help you.

And when it comes to handling money, we filipinos are normally not very good at handling money.
maybe they are better in handling money than you.
maybe they are into business, which pays more than a normal job.
maybe its simple economics. basin mas daghan imyong anak kaysa nila.
Mao nga kaafford silag extra things kay maayo nila pagkaplano ilang family size.

examine closely what needs to be improved--relationship or money handling.

Our family is in very good relationship. We do calls/text's/ and getting together, we share life stories. experiences, but inspite all that. Still makes me wander & they dont run any business at all. I have 2 kids. Well perhaps my pay isnt sufficient enough for us. I think and I guess so. hehehe thanks.

[CocoCrunch]

I would like to ask politely pinoy_09, xavisimao, coco crunch and company to get off my back.
you dont know me. and you dont even know what i do here.
i save one life here through istorya.
this is really a good place for me to help people.

two years ago one lady istoryan pmed me to help his bestfriend.
he lost all hopes and he planned on taking his own life.
he's got loads of problem.
his name is Stan.
He is from Quezon City.
His wife left him and took their two kids with her.
He has no money and got loads of credit card obligations.
And he was about to lose his job.
that is why he wanted to kill himself.
He was really depressed.

So when I heard about it from his lady friend,
I gave her my personal number and told her to let him call me.

he texted me and i gave him P100 pesos load.
He said "why did you load me p100? what for?"
I said because you are my friend.
And you would not leave without paying back your friend would you?
He said its the first time someone made him laugh.
then i asked him about his problems.
traced his depression back to his childhood.
the rest is history.
i managed to give him hope. thats all he needed at that time.

Weeks later i got a text from his wife, he said whatever i did to his husband, she was grateful for it.
they are still apart but she sees him as a better person now.
She just texted to say thanks.

then I got a text from stan.
he said he is saving money because he planned to travel to cebu just to see me.
He asked my shirt size because he wanted to give me something as token of his appreciation.
Actually no token necessary for me.
i just want to help people.

If some of you could remember I also have group sessions before where we discuss solutions on personal problems with some istoryans. we have meetings every saturday evening..

So if you could please leave me alone.
maybe i can help more people here without you attacking me all the time..

enough drama already please. I was only reacting to your posts and they are always related with your threads, even from the late conspiracy theory thread.

Why can't you accept some people opposes your statements and theories?

Your conspiracy theory thread never helped anyone and I did not try to stop you in anything you want to do. I was just posting my thoughts and making you realize some things which you obviously won't accept and always deflect.

This is a forum, a public site and you cant filter anyone who gets in and post stuff.

ps. I don't want to comment anything about your depressed friend story.

Why would anyone seek help to someone who can't even tolerate cyber bullies?

[Soul Doctor]

enough drama already please. I was only reacting to your posts and they are always related with your threads, even from the late conspiracy theory thread.

Why can't you accept some people opposes your statements and theories?

Your conspiracy theory thread never helped anyone and I did not try to stop you in anything you want to do. I was just posting my thoughts and making you realize some things which you obviously won't accept and always deflect.

This is a forum, a public site and you cant filter anyone who gets in and post stuff.

ps. I don't want to comment anything about your depressed friend story.

Why would anyone seek help to someone who can't even tolerate cyber bullies?

OT:
i think this person already admitted in a way that he is a cyber bully.
for that reason he is now officially ignored in this thread.

[CocoCrunch]

OT:
i think this person already admitted in a way that he is a cyber bully.
for that reason he is now officially ignored in this thread.

OT.
mura pud unsay naa ani na thread. who else visits your thread other than us? the other questionable accounts? lol

goodluck with your life doc.

[pinoy_09]

OT:
*this person is previously identified as a hostile character and is now officially ignored in this thread.

Hehe... You're the only one who identifies me as a hostile character. So go figure. You should be thankful to us, your so-called "cyberbullies", for populating this wonderful thread of yours. Your thread would be long buried if not for us.

You're welcome.

[Soul Doctor]

Hehe... You're the only one who identifies me as a hostile character. So go figure. You should be thankful to us, your so-called "cyberbullies", for populating this wonderful thread of yours. Your thread would be long buried if not for us.
You're welcome.

OT:
Yes of course, thanks for getting my threads closed.
and now,
back to ignore mode.

[rodsky]

Sorry I just can't help noticing this. He said he'd ignore pinoy_09 no less than THREE times (which basically indicates that twice, he failed to ignore him).

Reminds me of Simon Peter's "No, I don't know him!" remark. The question is, will a rooster crow in this thread?

But I'm going off-topic here, and in the spirit of reconciliation, I do have a legitimate question for Soul Doctor.

Do you like tie-dye shirts, and why?

-RODION

[Soul Doctor]

Sorry I just can't help noticing this. He said he'd ignore pinoy_09 no less than THREE times (which basically indicates that twice, he failed to ignore him).

Reminds me of Simon Peter's "No, I don't know him!" remark. The question is, will a rooster crow in this thread?

But I'm going off-topic here, and in the spirit of reconciliation, I do have a legitimate question for Soul Doctor.

Do you like tie-dye shirts, and why?

-RODION

cant just let it go mr rodsky?

how is my tie die related to your life?

is it that distracting?

or maybe you want me to reply off topic so i could be infracted for the number of consecutive off topic posts i give just answering your off topic posts along with your friends.

im amazed how you always come in on cue.

or do i have to ignore you now
i thought i already ask you as politely as i can to get off my back.
who do i ask in here to get you people off my back?

[city customs]

hehehe lingaw ni dah, maypa mangapply ka sa MOR bro wa na mn si kaka did2....

[rodsky]

Ok, I'll ask another question then, and this time around I'll try phrase it more in the context you wish to answer it in.

Question: Why is there pain in life?

-RODION