what do you think? Senxa taas kaau...:'(

[jom22488]

TS, i love you na kai grabe modumdum ug dates. it's so rare for a guy to recall them all. good job indeed!

i must say to let her go. she's capable of changing her decisions and feelings. she has her own reasons too. don't wallow yourself in self-pity because you thought ikaw ang nasakitan ug ayo. you both share your sorrows.

cge lang, there are lots of big fish in the ocean. you have lots of reasons to smile. so keep it cool lang.

hmmmm dli lang ko ka picture out nga na hurt pd xa.. she ain't a kid nga wala kbaw sa consequences sa iyang actions, nya i know she is very smart mao dli ko ka explain nganu nahitabo na.. mao na dha..

btw smile2 lang sa gd.. hehe.. thanks..

[handurawan]

bro, ONLY girls know what they want.....

They want to be in-charge of their own life... if you love her that much.. try to give way for the sake of space and time she wishes to have....

sometimes proving a person how much you love her/him is to learn to let go....

ug sa imong part sad, do your best to be a better person u wish to be... prove her that you're not just a boyfriend to her.. try to be her man and her best friend at the same time....

or gusto ka nga walay gubot.... pagpinarehas nlang nk nga walay gf... hehe.. ang importante stable ko sa work... haha...

[jom22488]

bro, ONLY girls know what they want.....

They want to be in-charge of their own life... if you love her that much.. try to give way for the sake of space and time she wishes to have....

sometimes proving a person how much you love her/him is to learn to let go....

ug sa imong part sad, do your best to be a better person u wish to be... prove her that you're not just a boyfriend to her.. try to be her man and her best friend at the same time....

or gusto ka nga walay gubot.... pagpinarehas nlang nk nga walay gf... hehe.. ang importante stable ko sa work... haha...

Struggle kaau nang iyang gipangayo btw.. mkahuna2 ko is she safe pdung work or pdung pauli.. nkakaon nba xa.. all those minor things, na anad q routine nako for the past 3 years.. lisud pero nag start na lagi kog adjust.. 4 days pa nuon.. hehe ga atang nkos akoang breaking point..

Kanang parehas nimu, haha ga expect naman pd q nga diha nako padung..

[handurawan]

Kanang parehas nimu, haha ga expect naman pd q nga diha nako padung..

sometimes bro to becoming a better man is to learn to accept your defeat....

[jom22488]

sometimes bro to becoming a better man is to learn to accept your defeat....

Lage.. Paet.. Dli lang jd cguro fair ang world..

[DigiBoy]

First off: I am expecting the girl to understand. I mean, if ing.ana namo kadugay, dapat cherish and keep it well. Para nako, madala raman ug storya. if only she informed you of how she felt nga maghilak cya sa office ( i dont know, wala man nimo gimention sa imo story ).

TS: of course being lazy strikes us at times but murag madala paman cguro to magdouble time ka before it happened? i really dont know.

Seems like it is a long journey ahead TS. As she said, pwde pa maging kamo, show it to her if maka patong naka sa big rock. win her back if you like.

[jom22488]

First off: I am expecting the girl to understand. I mean, if ing.ana namo kadugay, dapat cherish and keep it well. Para nako, madala raman ug storya. if only she informed you of how she felt nga maghilak cya sa office ( i dont know, wala man nimo gimention sa imo story ).

TS: of course being lazy strikes us at times but murag madala paman cguro to magdouble time ka before it happened? i really dont know.

Seems like it is a long journey ahead TS. As she said, pwde pa maging kamo, show it to her if maka patong naka sa big rock. win her back if you like.

Wala.. I never really knew, she pretended to be okay, wala pajd ko kbantay nga dli na diay.. I know I am at fault man pd, and now I'm paying for that mistake.. Unta ma ok ra ni tanan whatever happens...

[patty]

let her feel na you can live without her!! mutarung jud na!

[jom22488]

let her feel na you can live without her!! mutarung jud na!

I'm trying na bitaw.. Lisud kaau but I should try.. 4 days nako rn and counting....

[jom22488]

wow, more or less same2 ta ug situation. 32months of being together then suddenly someone would pop out and ruin what u have. tsk.
but like what my sister told me "maibog manjud na ang tao bisag minyo, normal ra na. but u have the choice to either magpada or istop. u always have a choice" guess its u'r ex's fault as well.
hmm i was like u pud, i did everything to save the relationship *even if i'm the girl". i begged him to stay, but he didnt. i asked him if he has other girl but he denied. i really blamed myself for the break up. but later on i found out that he really has this OTHER GIRL. instead of feeling pity to myself i was thankful i found it out, cause atlast i have enough reason to let him go.
the nice thing was I know in myself that I did everything to save us so i don't feel any regrets of us not working out.
Same with u TS, u have given enough to save the relationship so stop doing anything else for the same reason. All you have to do is wait for her decision. But you also have to think of yourself. Obviously, u have that HOPE of you getting back together, u dont have to let go of that. However, you should start moving on. If she comes back then it'll be nice, but if not atleast ur already starting to fix urself. atleast it wont hurt that much.
believe me, iv been to your situation, that time if i had a choice between dying and living i'll really choose the first, but i realized that there's more to life than having boyfriends/girlfriends.

hmmm, u also have to pray TS, it'll surely help. Talk to God. He will surely help you ease the pain.
Embrace the pain and learn from it. be brave

Naa jud ka point sis.. Thank you.. Haha akoa ning gi review ang tibuok thread, more or less people have been trying to tell me the same thing.. haha.. and now padung nako 5 days!!