Does love actually fade away with time?

[tonvlad88]

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Mas mu nindot nuo TS. Wine gets better as it ages.

well, i just hope love is just simple to handle as wine

[FukenGruven]

if it's love it gets sweeter like wine, if it's not then more likely it's just lust that blows away like dust....

[tonvlad88]

if it's love it gets sweeter like wine, if it's not then more likely it's just lust that blows away like dust....

you got me to think with this comment... yeahh maybe its really depends on the two of us.. haysss wish us luck nlang...

[farmboy]

There are many kinds of love. Parental love of parents for their children. Brother/Sister love among siblings for those who have brothers and sisters. There is Romantic love which is what you are referring to since you mentioned about your future wife.

There are kinds of Romantic love as well. They simply range from False on one end to True at the other extreme, and a billion different combinations in between.

I venture to say that not everyone in one lifetime can and will find true love. Often we are presented with what we have and remain with it hoping that someday, somehow, a love that is true will find us.

The short answer to you question then, is YES. I call this the short answer because in today's realities, there are many distractions to love and loving. LDR is one factor and love is a sure casualty. Lust is another. Material needs, personal ambitions and dreams often invades and pollutes our true essence of love and loving so truly.

So, the real answer is actually NO. True Love, the one we call love of lifetimes, will never fade with time.

To those who found one, be happy for not all are fortunate enough to be found by Love herself.

Goodbye, Love.

[TEDA]

if its only a GAME then you would only LAUGH about it

if you love her MORE than yourself then you would CRY for it

but if its REAL then it WONT FADE AWAY

[krizz]

depende nana sa two person,like me murag ma fade man if the feeling is gone

[tonvlad88]

There are many kinds of love. Parental love of parents for their children. Brother/Sister love among siblings for those who have brothers and sisters. There is Romantic love which is what you are referring to since you mentioned about your future wife.

There are kinds of Romantic love as well. They simply range from False on one end to True at the other extreme, and a billion different combinations in between.

I venture to say that not everyone in one lifetime can and will find true love. Often we are presented with what we have and remain with it hoping that someday, somehow, a love that is true will find us.

The short answer to you question then, is YES. I call this the short answer because in today's realities, there are many distractions to love and loving. LDR is one factor and love is a sure casualty. Lust is another. Material needs, personal ambitions and dreams often invades and pollutes our true essence of love and loving so truly.

So, the real answer is actually NO. True Love, the one we call love of lifetimes, will never fade with time.

To those who found one, be happy for not all are fortunate enough to be found by Love herself.

Goodbye, Love.

i guess i have to close this thread because of this comment. Thanks for sharing your answer with me. I really appreciate it. Again thank you

b d way,, i pressed like

[tonvlad88]

depende nana sa two person,like me murag ma fade man if the feeling is gone

i guess i have to continue,, naa pamay ni comment gd..hehe... well,,, naa man pd moy reason ryt mao ma fade inung love,,, pde ka mag state og reason y ma fade imong love towards ur partner?? even 1 reason will do..

[koralstratz]

@tonvlad88

Bro, I'm a married man for almost ten years.....so I'll just share this experience to you, ikaw nalay bahalag relate sa imong mga pangutana.

During my days as a bachelor I was able to persuade (ilad) few ladies to have a healthy relationship with me (one at a time hap..dili ko two timer)....The love that I felt during those times was filled with tremendous PASSION and ECSTASY and so with it's corresponding heartaches....There were even times that I can no longer distinguish the fine line between True Love and Infatuation....Mao nay gi-ingong gugmang ga uros-uros,,,,,but I enjoyed each of those relationship that I had both Ups and Downs..And I believe that my formers partners also felt the same (maayo man daw KUNO ko mudalag relasyon...pili-an lang gyud hinoun) (lol)

When I got married the kind of LOVE that I felt when I was still a bachelor was more or less the same ...ONLY in the first few years.

What happened next? asa na tong gugmang ga uros-uros?

The PASSIONATE / ECSTATIC love that I use to feel with my wife faded away.........BUT...BUT...it was replaced with an even more stable and endearing love,,,the kind of love that I experienced ONLY AFTER several years from the first day that I got married and shared a single household with my wife...The kind of love that is more understanding, more compassionate, more forgiving and more patient.

To sum it all up? This love that I feel for my wife NOW is way much better than the previous kind of love.

How did I get it?......I'm not really sure how to answer this because I had not pre planned it nor had I anticipated it.....but I somehow I feel that this kind of love can be acquired through RESPECT for your spouse, COMMITMENT to your family, SHARED happiness, and DEVOTION to your religion (or if you're an atheist maybe devotion to what is considered MORAL)

So TS, I hope you can find something useful in my experience......and by the way,,,Marriage life has DEFINITELY it's UPS and DOWNS too...So better keep a cool head.

[krizz]

i guess i have to continue,, naa pamay ni comment gd..hehe... well,,, naa man pd moy reason ryt mao ma fade inung love,,, pde ka mag state og reason y ma fade imong love towards ur partner?? even 1 reason will do..

no time with each other,mas priority pa ang laing buhat niya kesa nako and most of all natuka nako sa possessive attitude.