Could you forgive someone if they cheated on you?

[Melvinthegreat]

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[Arra]

ah.. eventually i totally forgave him.. pero it took a long time.. lisud sad to among gi pang agi-an man gud..

[twistedANGEL25]

I did.Countless of times.But then again,he still did it.
So I ditched him.No sense in sticking with a guy who cheats over and over again.

Ako lang ulo mag rigor.

Matud pa sa kanta ni Leanne Rimes:

"Shame on you if you fool me once,shame on me if you fool me twice."

I've been a fool,NEVER AGAIN!

[azzkicker]

wel im just a men.. sakit man cya.. pro ako nlng cya e.forgiv... and im vry thnkful nga ni abot ka sa akong kinabuhi..

[vjay01]

cheaters don't deserve a second chance. once na imo i forgive magsalig nmn na then they will just do it again.

[tokti]

just wanna share my experience.. hmmm.. how should i start..

My GF/bestfrend(supposedly mag 2 yrs na ta mi that time) cheated on me twice..
1st was with a guy who was a winner at a certain pageant.. school mate namo sya.. dugay na gyud ko atoh nag duda bcoz mka.basa ko sa txt msgs nila..
2nd was with a person who used to be a close frend of mine but was clearly an a$$!@#$..

when i found out i was devastated. to think close na gyud kaau mi sa akoa gf. i was so faithful to her even though naay instances maka take advantage ko pero i never took advantage of the opportunity and remained faithful to her bcoz love kaau nko siya. while siya g.sayon.sayon ra ko ug ingon atoh.

1st guy wla ra ko problema niya kay nka sturya man mi. wa man sad sya kabalo nga kami diay.

worst part in the story was the 2nd guy. to think close ra nako siya and ako pa nag introduce niya sa akoa GF.. 2 months ra gani nagka.uyab na sila.. ang kina.grabehan pa jud mas gipili pa jud niya ang 2nd guy kaysa nako.. ug ang pinaka.grabehan pa jud g.deny jud everything that happened between us, g.pamukha pa nga ako ang third party, naghimo sila ug lain nga storya which is not true, g.daog2 ko sa ilaha frends and gidaot pa jud ko..

grabe! put in to mind this happened in an instant na drtso2x jud ni siya.. mixed emotions jud ko.. heart broken, uwawan, depressing, feeling like the world is ending, extremely angry, pissed off, dying, drowning, suffocating, lost, crazy.

6 months of those mixed emotion felt like a century of insanity most especially padung ko atoh mag take ug board.. during reviews and study focused kaau ko.. but during breaks and at nyt the insanity continues..

After those 6 long months passed I got over it.. coped and moved on..

Believe it or not still had the strength and courage to forgive her.. clearly she earned my forgivness since she showed up to me with my family and asked for my forgivness.. She earned my trust slowly and proved to me that she can be trusted once again.. nagkabalik mi.. i dont know if this is the right choice she made but i hope she is happy coz i know i am even if she has her own imperfections in life.. but for me she is already perfect the way she is..

IF THE LORD FORGAVE MAN FOR CRUCIFYING HIM THEN WHY CANT WE FORGIVE OTHERS WHEN WE ARE ONLY ORDINARY HUMAN BEINGS..

[2kELEVEN]

To forgive but never forget..... weeeeh

[acecrystal]

nope I hate cheaters, they suck big time..aren't they the most insecure?

[iang]

NO gyud nuh. ngita ko lain nganu btw cheat2x. next pls!

[zoey29]

nope. cheaters will always be a cheater..