Being the other girl..

[xinevirtucio]

Here's an excerpt:

When you are with him, it is like living in a fantasy world. A world where there is only you and him. When you look at the outside world, all you can see is black and white, but in your world you see rainbows, colors of red, pink, yellow, blue, and so on. When he came into the picture everything seems to glow as if they are lined with diamonds. They sparkle in the light...but it never lasts. You only get to enjoy it for a few hours and when he leaves, you are back again in the black and white reality.

true or false?

[ryeaka]

Here's an excerpt:

When you are with him, it is like living in a fantasy world. A world where there is only you and him. When you look at the outside world, all you can see is black and white, but in your world you see rainbows, colors of red, pink, yellow, blue, and so on. When he came into the picture everything seems to glow as if they are lined with diamonds. They sparkle in the light...but it never lasts. You only get to enjoy it for a few hours and when he leaves, you are back again in the black and white reality.

true or false?

very true

[xinevirtucio]

Here's another:

When you are alone, who do you think of? You cannot resist it, can you? No matter how hard you shut it out from your mind, it will always come back stronger than before, knocking and forcing itself into your thoughts. You deny it but you often think of it. You laugh at it and say it was just a game, but truth be told it was not. You are even hoping for a future with him. You lie in your bed staring at the ceiling wondering, thinking of nothing but him. You wonder where he is and then you thought, maybe he is at her house. Then you wonder again, what could it be that they are doing? And once again you thought maybe they are...STOP...you do not want to think about it, but you know, you know they could be doing it at the moment and again you wonder why, how. Your phone rings and there you find a text message from him telling you that he just got home from a game of ball with some friends. You felt guilty for even doubting him, but you cannot shake off the feeling that maybe it was just an excuse. He calls you, you hear his voice and everything vanishes. Once again, he is feeding your fantasy and once again, you are in your fantasy world. That night you went to bed smiling and in the morning when you open your eyes, your first thought for the day was him.

(excerpt lang, cause the write up is too long....naa na copy c TS aneh...hinaot naay makuha nga halandumong pagtulun-an) D kaya lalim nga THE OTHER GIRL..imo wosh....

[xinevirtucio]

Everything all boils down...to your own decision....

everything is your call...no one gets to decide for you....

You make the decision for yourself

[Chedot]

It's always difficult being the other girl. It's always easy to tell them to find another guy, someone they deserve better. Kalisod intawn pangita. Kamo kuno pangita para namo beh.

People will always find it easy to say they are good boyfriend/husband material. But when the relationship starts, they get tempted and seduced by others, and make the stupid excuse of being human, or the other girl has faults and whatever. They never take the blame and find fault in themselves.

If anyone here has never cheated on his girl, raise your hand. If you think you can love a woman as your ONE AND ONLY, faithfully for the rest of your life, and most especially if you ARE SINGLE in civil status, SINGLE - without any girlfriend, SINGLE without anything to hide, walay napaangkan etc, then hand in your resume and let's see.

I never cheated on my girl. In fact she was the one who cheated. .
Dah, undang tanan sustento.

Tan-aw nako lisod ipangita kung taas kag standards labi na unahon nimo ang physical aspects (gwapo, lami lawas, taas, taas ilong) tapos maulahi pajud nang values aspect (buotan, loving,
caring, charing. . ) hehehe. .

@TS ikaw rajud makasulbad ana. Naa na tanan tambag diri.. .It's your call na. .

[xinevirtucio]

sa ako....

kabalo nakong naa na xay uyab..ako ra jud tong choice nga musud ato nga situation just for the heck of it...

until one day karealize ko nga ako ray buang

it was easier sa akoa cuz wala man gud kagamot ang pagbati..

[ryeaka]

Here's another:

When you are alone, who do you think of? You cannot resist it, can you? No matter how hard you shut it out from your mind, it will always come back stronger than before, knocking and forcing itself into your thoughts. You deny it but you often think of it. You laugh at it and say it was just a game, but truth be told it was not. You are even hoping for a future with him. You lie in your bed staring at the ceiling wondering, thinking of nothing but him. You wonder where he is and then you thought, maybe he is at her house. Then you wonder again, what could it be that they are doing? And once again you thought maybe they are...STOP...you do not want to think about it, but you know, you know they could be doing it at the moment and again you wonder why, how. Your phone rings and there you find a text message from him telling you that he just got home from a game of ball with some friends. You felt guilty for even doubting him, but you cannot shake off the feeling that maybe it was just an excuse. He calls you, you hear his voice and everything vanishes. Once again, he is feeding your fantasy and once again, you are in your fantasy world. That night you went to bed smiling and in the morning when you open your eyes, your first thought for the day was him.

(excerpt lang, cause the write up is too long....naa na copy c TS aneh...hinaot naay makuha nga halandumong pagtulun-an) D kaya lalim nga THE OTHER GIRL..imo wosh....

igoa nako ani oie... pero sauna ra ahahahaha

[adz]

mao bitaw akoa naman gibuhat ang mga moves nga malayo na jud ko niya like block sa FB change number.. Then if mo call siya sa amoa ako na ipa ingun nga wala ko.. Basta things na makalikay nako niya tempting biya gihapon kaayo nga mo commu niya and sakitan jud ko pero daghan naman ko na realize gud.. Ug pasalamat ko kay daghan ayo mo ug mga advices nga nakatabang nako nga ma enlighten ko ani nga situation..

[reigel99]

^^^ I'm proud of you pud kay ming open up jud ka...

[xinevirtucio]

@TS:

D jd xa saun....

pero in the long run.....once everything has healed..you can look back and smile...

it was an experience that taught you a lot of lessons

I dunno sa inyo case...

but sa amo..kai we're still friends...but I make it a point not to see him...