When it's no longer fun :C

[bowee]

keep the fire burning... indulge on things you and your partner havent done before.. experiment new things.. go out to places that you normally wont hang out together..

ang importante.. is to to trash the word MONOTONY in the relationship..

Make or do suprises.. anything that can bring back the spices back again...

[day_doubting]

^^ pero di bah maka burn out man gud kung ikaw rah ang mag make sa moves or mag initiate sa surprises.. Sa pirting pagka but.an sa akong partner it feels like he just let me be.. Kanang murag " Cge ikaw nah bahala, kay ma- oo rah mih.."

[butong101]

^^ pero di bah maka burn out man gud kung ikaw rah ang mag make sa moves or mag initiate sa surprises.. Sa pirting pagka but.an sa akong partner it feels like he just let me be.. Kanang murag " Cge ikaw nah bahala, kay ma- oo rah mih.."

believed me, i definitely know how it is being in your situation. ang problema ani noh kay dili nka ma interested niya.. harsh as this may seem, but you dont need him anymore, perhaps the love that you once felt was grounded on the need aspect of the relationship.. im not implying your using him, of course your not, but there are love which are precisely like this.. the needy love. but when you start to feel full of yourself again or when your partner doesn't satisfy that need you once sought or perhaps he had filled the need already, filling it everyday, it would feel monotonous and you'll feel empty.

iv seen bad outcome for this one. i just hope you and him will turn out just fine, in any case, you cant blame yourself for whatever decision youll do in the future especially if you'll decide to leave him. Iv come across w/ this saying "we ant choose whom to love, much more, we cant decide when to stop loving"..

[day_doubting]

getting to familiar with each other and probably wanted to try new things yourself without your partner but confused on how to go about it without hurting your partner's feelings. loving is not just plainly loving but committing yourself with that person. relationships are not all about being happy and enjoying life but enduring the trials of life together. u have to do something to keep the fire burning or else, u may find yourself getting bored with your partner. dont be too quick to decide on something you might regret later

>> Yes, that crossed my mind a few times already. do you think it's ok to do some things on my own? Dih man nah cguro lain noh... i'm actually still holding on, still hoping for things to get better and my mind get clearer. i don't want to come to a point when letting go is the only option.. huhu.. i don't want that one day i'll say I just wasted 7 would-have-been-great years of my life..

[botoy0917]

TS... ako lang masulti... paningkamuti na di mo mag s3x... like suwayi ug 1-3months.. syaro.. kay kung schedule2x jud na inyo.. aw mapul-an jud nang laki.. bisag unsa mo kadugay... mapul-an jud na.. labi nang di jud diay kamo ang destined.. hahay...

[Judgement]

aw buwagi dayon, di na man kaha ka ganahan. Ikaw ra gihapon maglisod kung imo ipadayon.

[ulyssa_marie]

I know a couple who went through this, and they asked me for advice too.
It is an experience that many people go through, so don't worry, you're not alone.

I suggest that you talk to your partner. Take her out on for a dinner and talk to her calmly that you no longer feel passionate about the relationship. She might get angry, but tell her that you want to talk about it sensibly. Suggest that you want to take a short time off. perhaps a month or 2. not a break to see other people, but a break to just have some time on your own and think it over. after the 2 months, come back together, and share thoughts about your feelings if the relationship should continue or not.

Staying together for the sake of "staying together" and not for love would hurt both of you in the long run. I'm sure your gf doesnt want you to stay with her but not love her in return. And you never know, perhaps your gf is feeling the same way as you are.

Talk it over and i hope things improve.

[day_doubting]

TS... ako lang masulti... paningkamuti na di mo mag s3x... like suwayi ug 1-3months.. syaro.. kay kung schedule2x jud na inyo.. aw mapul-an jud nang laki.. bisag unsa mo kadugay... mapul-an jud na.. labi nang di jud diay kamo ang destined.. hahay...

^^ unsa.on nah lang nih? kay sa among case.. murag ako man gud ang napul.an then dli lang nih about sa ***. It's like I know the person too well, i know exactly the words that he'll say next.. Kung sa "How I met your mother" pa --> We're running out of firsts.. ( first kiss, first dance, first date..etc.. )

[paheng]

do "beyond-ordinary" things together....

[Lance_08]

to keep the fire burning in a relationship bro is the hardest challenge...