Getting Married... Kalabad sa ulo (Here's the story)

[reginakrys]

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I don't want to proceed cause it makes me feel bad about my parents. I don't want them to feel uneasy and make them feel bad about our wedding. So that's why dili ko ganahan ug gubot nga kasal, I want it nga naay blessing both sa amung parents. That's why gi tarong gyud namu ug pama.agi amung kasal.

okay.. so move your wedding to a later date nalang.. better to give up money than to give up your and her parents' blessings..

and yeah, hasola sa imong future BIL oi. haha.

[nijazared]

labad jud sa ulo...give way na lang para wala nay samok...then work out a deal with your suppliers...

[istoryamember]

pagstorya lang mo ug tarong. ihatag imong side like ang imong problem sa imong deposits. Dili baya lalim karon pangita money then makaltasan pa jud. Basin pa d ay ug mo ingon to bro-in-law nimo na bayran ka nila sa gastos. Usahay pud kaning mga katiguwangan nato to-o to-o pud nig sukob oi nga wala man na labot unta sa kaminyoon. How about your fiance? Unsa man iyang plan pud ani?

[Klave]

Let them have their fun for now.
But make it a point that they understand that you won't tolerate anymore rash decisions in the future.
Walk away for now, but don't allow them to think you are a push over as well. With the things are going, it will be easy for them to think they can just impose themselves whenever they want to.
I don't think you explained how things happened in the first place, why you became obligated to give up the things you already paid for, so it made me conclude tingali naluoy imong wife-to-be and in a way they are taking advantage of her kindness.
When you are married na, make it a point that you protect her so they won't further take advantage.
So in a way, sakto imong parents nga tingali naay malas, at the same time it is safe to say that you have pretty rash in laws.

[paheng]

pag.double wedding nalang mo bro...
para wai sukob..
wai kalas kwarta..

[bisayang teknoy]

haha.almost the same thing happend nato bro. if youre really a catholic then why would you believe on sukob.?that belief is the one to be blamed on and causing your trouble.

[wilx]

pagstorya lang mo ug tarong. ihatag imong side like ang imong problem sa imong deposits. Dili baya lalim karon pangita money then makaltasan pa jud. Basin pa d ay ug mo ingon to bro-in-law nimo na bayran ka nila sa gastos. Usahay pud kaning mga katiguwangan nato to-o to-o pud nig sukob oi nga wala man na labot unta sa kaminyoon. How about your fiance? Unsa man iyang plan pud ani?

She's going through hell now, but I know she'll be fine. She also thinks that mas important ang blessing sa amu parents.

[bosin]

mayta ma solve na ni TS

[jofer]

its just pamahiin.if they push on getting married then dont dwell on it na lang.go on with ur wedding.

[wilx]

mayta ma solve na ni TS

solved naman ni. Kami ra mu move... maayo unta ma kalimtan ug dali ang na hitabo... dili dali ma limtan pero soon cguro... it will heal...