How to overcome a BROKEN HEART???

[lodyl]

daghn nta ani broken hearted...

Something that I feel I need to say
But up to now I’ve always been afraid
That you would never come around

hahahahaha...

Maka ana man pud ko nga basin mao na pud ni USO karon.....

[lodyl]

huna2xon lng gd na dili ang kanang taohana ang makapa sakit nimo. kinsa mn na xa pra makapa in-ana nimo, di na xa deserving sa imo emotion

hahahaha... well, she was the one that I USED to love... she WAS the owner of my heart and keeper of my soul........ mao guro nga "heartless" ug "soulless" nako karon? bwahahahahaha........

[lodyl]

Here are my own ways...

1. Pamper yourself. It feels good if you treat yourself when you're down like going to a parlor, go shopping, buy your favorite food or things.

2. Share your feelings. You could talk to a friend or someone who is comfortable to talk with about what you feel. In that way, you could also feel the care and love of someone and express your sentiments to them. It's one way of ovecoming pain instead of staying in one room alone.

3. Go out with friends or join any organization. You could go out with your friends so that you will not be distracted by your feelings. Joining any organization could also help you forget your sadness. In this way, you could socialize with other people and enhance you confidence.

4. Date someone. You could go out with someone during a heartbreak. This could make you realize that you could appreciate other person aside from your ex.

5. Understand and Accept. Understanding of the things that happen to you could help you move on and realize that it's not the end of the world yet. There could be a lot of opportunities that would come along the way. Acceptance also plays an importand role. You have to accept that you are not for each other and both of you deserve someone that could make you truly happy. Through understanding and acceptance, you may be optimistic of your tomorrow.

Matsalams ani....

Based sa 5 stages of grief:
1) Denial and Isolation
2) Anger
3) Bargaining
4) Depression
5) Acceptance

Naa nako sa stage 5............

[cherub.rock]

pray. on my worst experience of heartbreak, no amount of night-outs with friends, self-pampering, or any other activity could ease the pain when the day ends and i am all alone in bed. what i'm trying to say is.. you cannot escape the hurt. no matter what you do, you will always find yourself in a moment of helplessness that no wordly diversion could remedy. it will not fade in an instant. but what did help me was God.. told Him all i felt. i didn't need to scream out loud or get drunk. since then, my relationship with the Lord changed..and i couldn't be any more happier.

[zhibi]

kung ako lang sad noon imong pangutan.on. in reality naa jud nay ending. in a relationship 2 ra jud na ang option. it's either mag minyo mo or mag buwag mo, so take the risk. if kita ka atong "strangers again" sa youtube from the moment nag kaila cla hatod sa stage nga chasing, compatibility then tolerance, in the end naka ingon ang babae kung magpakasal ba cla or dili. duha ra jud na tagakan ana either ma happy ka nga kamong duha or ma happy ka nga ikaw lang. so either or them will do coz naay path para nato ang GOD kung asa jud ta ibutang. and isa pa there's no such thing as "SINGLE FOREVER" karon rana nimo na feel kay depressed ka. remember "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND". as of now take time to find yourself enjoy life lang. di lang ikaw ang naka experience ana. ang uban gani dili pa ka express sa ilang feelings kay na praning na tungod sa depression. kung love nimo siya well diha ra jud ka kutob at least ika pa ni john lloyd "you have me at my best, but she have me at my worst".

[Jake_24]

find someone else who can fix ur heart....

[HeartStops]

channel your love...
get it from parents, friends, etc.
this will give you courage to get through the day

[redjvshopnshop]

prayers!... and lots and lots of food hehehehe

[lodyl]

pray. on my worst experience of heartbreak, no amount of night-outs with friends, self-pampering, or any other activity could ease the pain when the day ends and i am all alone in bed. what i'm trying to say is.. you cannot escape the hurt. no matter what you do, you will always find yourself in a moment of helplessness that no wordly diversion could remedy. it will not fade in an instant. but what did help me was God.. told Him all i felt. i didn't need to scream out loud or get drunk. since then, my relationship with the Lord changed..and i couldn't be any more happier.

thanks for this, i think I'll try this on my Day of Redemption... this coming FRIDAY... hahahahaha...

[lodyl]

kung ako lang sad noon imong pangutan.on. in reality naa jud nay ending. in a relationship 2 ra jud na ang option. it's either mag minyo mo or mag buwag mo, so take the risk. if kita ka atong "strangers again" sa youtube from the moment nag kaila cla hatod sa stage nga chasing, compatibility then tolerance, in the end naka ingon ang babae kung magpakasal ba cla or dili. duha ra jud na tagakan ana either ma happy ka nga kamong duha or ma happy ka nga ikaw lang. so either or them will do coz naay path para nato ang GOD kung asa jud ta ibutang. and isa pa there's no such thing as "SINGLE FOREVER" karon rana nimo na feel kay depressed ka. remember "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND". as of now take time to find yourself enjoy life lang. di lang ikaw ang naka experience ana. ang uban gani dili pa ka express sa ilang feelings kay na praning na tungod sa depression. kung love nimo siya well diha ra jud ka kutob at least ika pa ni john lloyd "you have me at my best, but she have me at my worst".

hahahaha.... Well Zhibi, this will be the RISK I'll take, to be single forever... I will prove that there is a MAN WHO IS AN ISLAND.... sakto ba? hahahahaha.... in relationhip lang guro, I will STAND ALONE...