Unsay kahadlokan sa single, basta molapas nag 30 ang edad?

[sheka]

for me if ever i reach that age around mid 30's... ill be worried, i dont want to grow old without a family.
having a fmily of my own makes me complete

[benj04]

dili man cgro na kailangan kahadlukan..
kadaghan rang minyo diha nga galisod sa kinabuhi o ganahay diba?
walay maka ingon kung unsay perfect status para sa babaye..
its in the way that pipol live their life thats important.
naa lagi ka pamilya, naa sad kay kabit at d same time. nya nindut na?

[Ms.Beau]

sakto ka, benj04

[sheeshcute]

* getting married or hitched is not the end all and be all of living!
desperation comes only to those women who does not
know their worth! when it comes, it comes. no need to look for it!
enjoy life and your single blessedness!

[psyche_08]

i know some people who thinks marriage before 30 is a must. she said, gamay nalang daw ang TINUUD NGA LAKI KARUN... how true!

[n`gel]

In another light... (not marriage but self-worth and the need to be in a loving relationship with the opposite ***)

...this is not a generalization, just personal observation of what being single and over 30 makes women do. Lain lain man ang taw and so I say this is just them.

You can tell anybody at this age, uninvolved for a long time, if she's enjoying her singlehood or is desperate. Why I say this is because, sa amo hometown, I know a couple of mid-30's women who are the latter.

They talk cheap and papansin kaayo sa amo crowd. Seriously... and what's with sexy clothes nga manggawas gyud ang bilbil? I mean if they need attention or attraction from the opposite *** because they hope to be involved.. at least naman lang di lang pud palabi sa bilbil or at least dress wisely (bitaw it's different man gud if sobraan na pud ka pasagad or not). Naay usa ha nga she comes from a popular family of politicians, respetado sa amoa, and ilhado pud siya nga very smart and intellectual pero basta naa sa amo pundok kay bugalbugalan nalang siya sa mga guys. As in ingnon ba "pag work out didto kuan ay kay aron mawa na imong bilbil aron nay mopunit nimo"... ana man pud gud ang pundok gud prangka nga apil komedya ba. But her, she would just smile and ignore the comment pero I can see in her eyes that it's hurting her.

Naa gyuy ubang women nga ma desperate and it's real... especially kanang mga dugay kaayo kauyab. And yes it doesn't matter how old, even 20's maabot pud ug ingon ani nga point but there really is a difference. When you're 20 and you're depressed at least you don't worry much about hormonal imbalance and uncontrollable physical widening, flabbing dilemma.

I think women who act and feel desperate just need some empowerment and self-consciousness. I say, take better care of oneself and lose those insecurities. I would be 30 soon, in fact next year na but am a fit buff... I committ myself to do yoga the rest of my life if able. I aim to stay slim and fit no matter how age tires me.

But still.. just don't be alone. Like Ally McBeal's life.. a very successful lawyer who still has nightlife with her friends.. pero some nights she walks home lonely.

OT: @Streetcar: Honestly stella you look like you're in your mid-30's. Cheater pud ka. You don't look your age as in super grabe gyud di gyud mailhan. Maynta ana pud ko sa when I reach your age.

[n`gel]

i know some people who thinks marriage before 30 is a must. she said, gamay nalang daw ang TINUUD NGA LAKI KARUN... how true!

Aimz... i think sometimes man gud sa atong life (kung dili lang pud feminist nga pwede ra mabuhi walay intimate relationship) ato lang palabyon ang mga maayo. And then ug maabot na ug dako-dako nga edad mag wonder na "we're have all the good guys gone?"

[Ms.Beau]

hi, guyz!

i'll be turning 30 next year (feb 5 to be exact) and never have i been so excited about an upcoming bday or celebration of a milestone in my life. i think i understand why some women dread turning 30, especially single women as many of the posts here say so. what most do not know i guess is the paradigm by which i see singleness in our 30's. here:

that the 30's can become the most productive decade in life. if we are building a career, most probably it is during this time that we are on our way to expertise.

we know ourselves better at this stage in life. we know what we want and how to get it.

by this time we see our friends married, happily or otherwise. we know now that even married friends can suffer in utmost loneliness...that loneliness can come to anybody regardless of marital status.

we really feel grown up and so we want to "settle down"--this even without a husband. this may mean furnishing our apartment or buying our own house.

we have so much time for ourselves that we can pursue our passions and interests almost without limit. the more we pursue these, the more we are on our way to self-fulfillment.

so guyz, cheer up....Life in our 30's can be the best one yet. If Oprah can say that the 50's is a fabulous time in life, ang 30's pa kaha? think about that.

[WinFlo]

for me, i think it's not kahadlokan but kagul-an. maguol nga basi dili na magka-baby. as a woman gets older man gud it gets harder to get pregnant and there are complications either on the mother or the baby. although naa na in-vitro and other ways to get pregnant pero those are only for the ones who can afford.

[Ms.Beau]

for me, i think it's not kahadlokan but kagul-an. maguol nga basi dili na magka-baby. as a woman gets older man gud it gets harder to get pregnant and there are complications either on the mother or the baby. although naa na in-vitro and other ways to get pregnant pero those are only for the ones who can afford.

exactly, winflo. ang pinaka root sa gikagul-an-->declining fertility with age. its a fact though that nowadays there are more thirtyish women giving birth than their twentyish counterpart. most sad daw karong panahuna kay mo rely on assisted conception. recently i read about this technology that allows women to "freeze their eggs for future use". the purpose is to store healthy, younger eggs for the woman to use at a later time. true, these procedures are very costly.

well, for me lang jud noh, women should not be pressured to bear children just because she's a certain age or in a certain age range. that's a personal decision man gud. some may want to have many children, so they start at a younger age. Others may want only one, so okay ang manganak even in her early forties (again, mostly with the help of technology). A few others might be contented to have an adopted child. And there are even those who wouldn't get thrilled at the thought of bearing and raising children.

(Pause: some of you might be thinking, 'di ra man na iyang decision, apil man ang bana'. well, part of her decision is the selection of a suitable partner--kanang bana nga pareha sad niya ug expectation sa ilang future family life.)

the important thing then for women to do is to be aware of reproductive limitations as well as the technology available nowadays. with that she will be able to make informed decisions.