Unfair ba? Let me cite some examples.
Naay mo ingon nga ang iyang papa na stroke and heart attack, naparalyze, bedridden, nabaon sila sa utang then namatay... Blame dayon ni God nga ngano gepa antos sila ug maayo nga mosimba man unta sila... Pero looking back sa root cause, ngano diay nasakit iyang papa kay tungod sa unhealthy lifestyle. Inom, smoke, kaon ug unhealthy foods, bisan ni advise na ang doctor to refrain it's consumption.
So, si God diay ang nag encourage sa iyang papa mag inom, manigarilyo and etc..?
Second example... Naay uban couples, dugay or dili magka anak. Ge blame dayon si God nga unfair. Pero looking at the root cause again... One of them, or maybe both.. during their young and single lives, nag engage sila ug premarital ***, or worse, multiple sexual partners... then na STD...
So mao diay to ang cause sa ilang infertility/sterility... ang STD due to previous sexual encounters.
And other instances which are too many to mention.
But... maayo nalang, God is passionate and kind. Inspite of the misfortunes, He never forgets us in those times and even afterwards. He still gives us a new chance in life.
Dili man lagi mabalik ang deceased father, but makadawat pod ug other blessings, not only spiritual but sometimes physical and material gifts.
Bisan na infertile, pero ang uban maka anak ra gehapon in a normal way. Ang uban thru artificial... pero financially blessed man sila mao na maka afford ug medical intervention. Ang uban sterile, pero maka ampon pa ug wonderful child.