Is There Anything more Painful than a broken heart?

[boliklik]

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he does come home and spend a few minutes with the baby, kay mao ra man akng gi allow, im not doing it out of bitchiness but to make him miss "US" to make him realize nga he let go of something so precious...

well, now, he keeps begging me to give him another chance, a part of me wants to have him back, to look the other way wen he does something "fishy", to have the muslim < ( sakto ba? ) mentality nga ok ra daghan babay iyang bana, just as long as im the one he comes home to... hay pathetic jud....

the thing is, kahibaw man cya sa akng mga weakness gud, he knows wat to do to make my heart melt, giving me that lost puppy dog look, whispering sweet nothings, mga old jokes, etc.... *sigh* God give me strength to say NO.....

[SpW_Clear]

hala oi boliklik.. gai ko cell number ana bayhana beh kay awayon sab nako.. buing man na cya oi.. bitaw oi, pasagdi na cya kay in the real sense, she's the total loser.. lunatic pa jud! *****! way buot.. waaahhh..stop me!
ei, you've earned my respect, boliklik...really!

kuyawa gyud nimo thisbe.ara oi. u rily hate third parties.hahaha! malingaw jud ko kung mao na ni ang topic, bout third parties..lingaw ko sa imomng reactions..i can see myself on you... but in fairness, you're a good adviser ha... what you always say are a quite helpful... and it can awaken one's poor sanity.

[thisbe.ara]

OT@thanks SPW_clear, from experience ra jud na nako.. ive seen relationships get broken and families deteriorate because some people are just too selfish to consider others' feelings.. and yes, i detest 3rd parties jud.. hehehe..

[cLowNanGeL]

he does come home and spend a few minutes with the baby, kay mao ra man akng gi allow, im not doing it out of bitchiness but to make him miss "US" to make him realize nga he let go of something so precious...

y wont u give urself a break sa?.. bakasyon sa mo sa imo baby.. coz i think the idea of letting him come home to visit the baby in just a few minutes wont help you.. ma lure ra ka ana kadugayan sa iyang mga sweet nothings.. if ur trying to make him realize na he let go of something so precious ayaw pakita at all... begging? mo beg na cya karon? human sa tanan.. gurl.. am not being harsh ha.. pero kung ako ikaw tagai cya ug leksyon ayaw sa pasaylo a....let him realize sa iya sayop.. make his life a little miserable sa.. para magtanda..

[boliklik]

da oi, nindot ta ilupad da, mayta gamhanan ko pareho ni krystalla, but dle man ko ka sayon2 ug biya coz naa man ko'y business.... and now the jerk s making pa cute arn madala na pud ko, and im proud to say, wa jd keber.... bisan giganahan na gd ko, hehehehe...

karon, i'm offering him friendship na, i don't want to get bad karma if i get too bitchy... i leave it in the Lords hands na, at least, f mamatay ko, he won't have anything bad to say about me...and it isnt about me anymore na man...i don't want my baby to lose her father.... kay bisan pa nagbinuang cya, he is a good father man gud.... sakit lng everytime he comes home and holds d baby...kay d man ko maapil ug hold nya...huhuhuhuhu

[giver_bert]

some how i can relate with your situation bolilik.. i have this twisted principle also that "i don't swallow something that i spited already!"

anyway.. pain associated to a broken family/relationship is indeed too overwhelming.. but hey just try to enjoy the feeling (kinda odd right?).. what i'm trying to say is you feel the pain, take it as an inspiration to move on.. for all you know, experience such as this somehow made you a better/stronger person than you are.. HOWEVER, NEVER INTEND AT KEEPING IT FOREVER.. let go of the pain, if you wanna achieve absolute happiness and contentment...

It's good that you have forgiven him.. it's never healthy to keep superfluous excess baggage inside.. as i always tell my friends.. move on, pick up the pieces again, BUT DON'T EVEN INTEND AT REPAIRING IT... Lastly, let time heal those wounds.. before you know it you'll find yourself feeling the same addicting feeling, but probably by that time to somebody much worthy... that i hope..

I wish you good life!

[boliklik]

hala giver_bert, almost na man ta na heal akong heart, cge na gani mi katawa kay friends na mi, amo na man lng baby naka hold sa among relationship (as friends) den ang girl cge na man ug txt nako.... gibyaan daw ko kay blahblahblah....cla daw kuyog anang mga times nga wala akng bana dre...etc....

mamatay man tngle ko sa kunsomisyon ani....

[thisbe.ara]

ambot lang jud boliklik oi, i can't stand the thought of that girl.. haayyyy.. arrggghhh! have you told your ex-hubby bout this? i mean, now that ur friends?
ei, m glad u were able to pick up the pieces and learn to stand again.. m so proud of you!

[kyoxo]

be strong Gurl... ayw padala pag.au sa imo imotions ... Life must go on... Dont give up!!!

Juz pray to God for His Guidance...

Laina sab anang bayhana oi, mura man cya uneducated...

[giver_bert]

hala giver_bert, almost na man ta na heal akong heart, cge na gani mi katawa kay friends na mi, amo na man lng baby naka hold sa among relationship (as friends) den ang girl cge na man ug txt nako.... gibyaan daw ko kay blahblahblah....cla daw kuyog anang mga times nga wala akng bana dre...etc....

mamatay man tngle ko sa kunsomisyon ani....

THE GIRL IS SICK!!!!

You'll just have to look on the underlying meaning for every situation boliklik.. drill down possible reasons, why someone would try to do that.. despite the fact that she has your former man already? hhmm.. if i were to analyze and speculate, it's an indirect manifestation of fear - probably because she knew somehow beforehand that you're husband might try to win you back.. or perhaps a sign of insecurity to something/somebody.. thus channeling it to the person/thing concern. Kung sa bisaya pa gipalagot gyd ka niya.. para ma assure niya na you will not accept your husband just in case.. tsk tsk.. a very coward move. I'm just glad you've finally pull yourself back from oblivion I salute you.. and hey WAFA raba kaayo ka..so don't despair..you deserve someone better.. and it's good your diplomatic/civil enough to have maintained a healthy relationship with your husband, well at least for the sake of your child..