One rule to follow regarding this topic,which I found out the hard way...
Never assume and expect less...
I assumed to much,read in between the lines and in the end,I got hurt.
If a guy tells you he likes you,always ask him: TO WHAT EXTENT?
Friendship or more?
And if the guys says more...Then ask him: WHAT'S NEXT?
May nang sa first claro para wala'y mag rigor na utok.
And most importantly,no tears would be shed.![]()
GIRL, if only all GIRLS we're as FRANK & STRAIGHTFORWARD like US! But in the usual case, nihit ra kaayo ang BABAE or LALAKE na maka ingun ana baya! hehehe Mao na nga kailangan it has to start gyud from the part of the CULPRIT or the one who usually unintentionally makes the wrong moves gyud right from the start! Diba?![]()
napa jud diay,
if makasense ka na ang babay ganahan nimo, ayaw replyi kay kuyaw na hahhahha
well para nku depende na sa laki/babae. naa biya mga laki na "dream boy/dream girl" effect pud. ang pag interpret lng nimu sa mga signs gud.. kay it doesnt mean na sweet na cxa nimu naka gusto na cxa..
Sayun ra man ta ni bsta mu stick lang ka sa 1 rule... NEVER ASSUME ... You have to hear it first hand kung unsa jud iyang motives... You can actually ask him/her... if real friends mo he or she wouldn't mind... hekhek
The one who usually unintentionally makes the wrong moves isnt usually the culprit. The culprit is usually the one who falls in love first, because thats when the pain begins in the friendship. If both are close friends, wouldn't he/she be able to distinguish if the actions are "normal" or "special" in the first place? Observe how he/she treats other close friends and how he/she treats you. Can you spot a difference?
And to the one who unintentionally makes the wrong moves, he/she MUST make due for the damange caused. Take responsibility and explain nicely that intentions were pure and not to hurt or dominate. He/she should realize the possibility of the friend falling in love. If he/she REALLY is a friend, then he/she should be able to moderate his/her actions in order to keep the friend from falling in love and keeping them away from pain.
OT: Aguy nag crush2x na! hahahha Hla cge birahi na ninyu kay SINGLE nana si ryeaka! hahahah
karelate jud ko ani ai..tsk tsk tsk..naconfused jud ko..=D
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