
Originally Posted by
LinAliza
Men who lie and manipulate to get s3x are sociopaths, and are to be avoided. As with any other group, you’re going to have abusers, idiots, and sociopaths. 99% of players, or men who have “good game,” are not these men. Most guys who get into the game are just regular dudes who want to do the following:
1. Have more options dating.
2. Date great women who would normally disqualify these regular guys.
3. Develop their emotional and social intelligence.
4. Become a better person.
You might find that hard to believe, but it’s true. Most pickup programs begin and end with “inner game,” that is the development of self.
I use a variety of tactics, but nothing in there is disingenuous. I’m true to myself, doing activities that are fun, and generating attraction at the same time. No one got hurt and no one was lied to. In fact, Vincent was thrilled to have met me, because he thought I was a “cool ghurl.” (At least I think he thinks I’m cool…)
Players have a bad rap and pickup is in desperate need of an image makeover. Because I want people to understand that increasing your social skill is a tremendous gift to men and women.