How to make a relationship strong?

[sushikandi]

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Constant & open communication

[belle :)]

be faithful and honest to each other.. mao rana

[mYta82]

TRUSt..this is the most important thing in every relationship

[cebu_doki]

outing once a week with make love. making her important always

[longthrow]

trust him/her & be honest- but not too honest
-leave something for yourself

[Hinara]

>For a relationship to stay strong, there must be...
1) True Love (Of course, for each other...)
2) Commitment (Rest assured na wala mo ga-dula...the question is how to stay strong, so naa jud dapat commitment
3) Respect/Honesty/Loyalty/Open Communication
4) Good Moments Together
5) THIRD PARTY Who is Up There (We humans are apt to make mistakes;there are times, we hurt each other,and if the worst comes to the worst, the pain may lead us to break-up,that's why guidance from HIM is important to be guided on what to decide-not to be too emotional to decide such a thing.)

[JIGS]

honest.......

[Hammer_and_Sickle]

inum mo sa imong pares ug RedHorse pirmi kada-date2x ninyo, para na'a mo'y
"Extra Strong" na love for each other, estoyaheee!!!

[SYNCH]

love her for who she is
prove your words by works
do something new everyday
trust her and be trustworthy
if you are wrong accept it and bawi immediately -- ayaw na padugaya
if she's wrong -- tell her she's wrong but do it in such a way you won't break a glass; set pride aside
say "i love you" at times she least expected, be it txt, call, email or whisper
be happy, smile and always keep her emotions burning
if you lost temper, breathe deeper and don't talk at the height of your emotion
let her ride on where your plans are going to; make her involved; let her know except for surprises (e.g. proposal)
my girl always love surprises so i give it at the time she least expected; these are things she wants and i usually give it months later on a no-occasion time
if you have favors/doubts (i.e. 3rd party), do something lovely and "kilig" to them that will make her smile and in love, say then your favors/doubts after
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pray to God for guidance, health and love always

this is for guys from a guy myself

better said the done, but when it's all been said and done, best is that you have done what you said.

Exactly, this is 2 years ago, and I'm married and going strong for one year now with my one and only girl

More tips I learned:

- You need to adjust and understand deeper on the differences with each other. These are things where you like something that she doesn't actually like (but you never knew before). What I did is I tried mix and match things up, e.g. she doesn't like spicy foods, so I tried to mix it up with a different meal or I cook it myself to balance the spice
- More surprises because she thinks that since you are married, she knows everything, I always surprise her even if it's the smallest thing
- I kiss her every now and then and she asks, "what's that for?", I always said, I just love you so much
- Spend more quality time, spend at least one whole day (esp if both of you are working), make it two if have kids or even three on free time

More tips coming as I'm enjoying the ride of our life...stay tuned. Hehe

[rakshasi]

Love - Trust - Respect - Communication

Give both sides the chance to talk and listen!