virgin, single & living an unwanted lie...

[jimmy128]

You need to get married. Dili naman kaha kag uyab2x? diretso na

[jenibaby003]

ts, i feel your pain. you are not alone... but remember there's more to life than that. you're too young to adjudge what life has to offer you. enjoy your youth before its gone.

[Morcego]

karelate kaayo ko nmo bro..lisod kaayo ning virgin and lonely ta...cge lang ta patabang lima..

[iwantmyboyfriend]

suway nlng duwa sa pikas team.. basin dha ka malingaw

[churva]

ts, i feel your pain. you are not alone... but remember there's more to life than that. you're too young to adjudge what life has to offer you. enjoy your youth before its gone.

exactly. as for the moment, enjoy ur life labon wa pa ka nahigot. go out with ur frends nalang so u wont feel alone.

[jeanine11280]

I think if girl pa ka, i would say its your biological clock saying its time to settle down...but in a way same ra guro ang girls ug guys..naa jud time when we need to belong...according to maslow's theory of self-actualization...so kudos to you, you are a normal person experiencing the same phase as every normal person should be..anyway, maybe subconsciously you want to have to find that "right woman"...well, eventually she will come, if you are a marrying kind...as they say, some of us are for marriage, while some are not......take life easy..enjoy what you have..not many people are as blessed as you.....

[miyay]

life's like that sometimes, ts. but believe you me, di ka nag iisa. people only see what they want to see. mind them not.

suggestion lang nako na since you are financially ok, sponsor some kids. you could start with worldvision.org.ph. sometimes, it helps to look beyond your self. it can ease the loneliness inside.

[BiKho]

hay ts i feel the same way...bulls eye pud kaau ko atong quarter life crisis

[LeeLeePot]

you're a 20+ successful virgin and im a 20+ epic fail...

we compliment each other! basi ako rai solution ana!


peo joke ra! hahaha!


sir, you created a clone account just to express you overthinkingness...i am an overthinker so i do understood your qualms about life...don't worry sir, ALL IS WELL... everything you've worked hard for will all boil down to one reason. just wait.

[alterego]

...nag wonder lang ko, dili ka ganahan ug uyab but u need someone beside you, unsa na, fubu? dont expect someone to truly love u ug fubu imong gipangita, in the first place they are only there for one reason, u already know it

not neccessarily fubu. more likely just a constant companion that i could go out with...when she comes, i hope she'll be true to me...

You need to get married. Dili naman kaha kag uyab2x? diretso na

that's what i also fear sab, lets say, if magminyo ko or magsettle down na...could i sustain it in the long run? will i achieve that 'happiness' nga akong gipangandoy?

for me, happiness has certain degrees man gud...what makes you happy, happier or happiest...murag ana.
and marriage, to me, falls on the bottom spot.

i still have lots of things that i wanna do, basin magmahay nya ko if married na ko.

i just want to share my achievements with someone, hoping in return nga dili ko pahimuslan or i take for granted.

life's like that sometimes, ts. but believe you me, di ka nag iisa. people only see what they want to see. mind them not.

suggestion lang nako na since you are financially ok, sponsor some kids. you could start with worldvision.org.ph. sometimes, it helps to look beyond your self. it can ease the loneliness inside.

yeah, i also want to try joining anang charity works again. i did it once before, and true, it surely eased the loneliness...just like you've posted. pero mu conflict man tingali na sa akong sked karon.

suway nlng duwa sa pikas team.. basin dha ka malingaw

if i understood what you meant, that would be the least thing i would ever do.

i grew up with no father, and i've seen the pain that my mother has endured. and my mother has very feeble prsonality, weak jd, murag dili inahan - one of my frustrations sad. she's indecisive and mediocre, prangkahay lang. pinaangkan ra man ko gud, basin grabe tingali iyang self pity or unsa sa iyang kaugalingon. maglagot ko nga maluoy sad. seeing her in that state, i told myself to never cheat a girl gyd.

i saw again my 'father' months ago lang after pila ka years, who is currently teaching sa isa ka university. ni paid off gyd akong paglayas 3 years back kay na trace man nako siya eventually. haha. and when we talked, i could sense nga daghan siyang pagmahay sa mga nabuhat before. i dont want to feel that same thing. i dont know if ako ra ba ang anak niya sa ubang baye nya, or basin daghan pa mi tingali. idk. and i dont care sab.

People feel alone and lonely at certain points in time. Ako, showing that I'm happy although I am not fully contented with my situation, but I seriously do not like people pitying me or mocking me, so I put on the facade that I am happy and emotionally strong. I guess you could say that everyone has their level of pride and that we each all have our own defensive mechanisms to protect our ego.
^_^v

yeah...murag parehas jud ta bai. it's like im living everyday na with a mask on. i really urge myself to be strong, i have accepted nga life's a struggle jud. ang dili kaantos, aw mamutos. naay pisi ai. haha! aw ilaha sad na.


thanks all sa inyong posts. very much appreciated.