virgin, single & living an unwanted lie...

[cebu_doki]

opus dei organization are all single and successful men.

[yvonne6]

libog jud ni usahay when it comes to what we want in life. but cheer up ts oi, dili jud daku imong problema para lang nako. look at the good things u already have, start from there and start appreciating things. its good to know you have a good paying job. para lang nako, since u r a guy, u have to make a little effort to get to know someone. nganong mahadlok man ka? rejection? sus, we all go through that stage. uban man gani, gikasal na, naa nay anak, i reject pa man gani later on. this is something we cant control. to live normally and happily, u have to accept that at some point in our lives, masakitan jud ta, dili puro lang kalipay. but we learn from our mistakes and we get stronger by the hurt we experienced. ana lang. nag wonder lang ko, dili ka ganahan ug uyab but u need someone beside you, unsa na, fubu? dont expect someone to truly love u ug fubu imong gipangita, in the first place they are only there for one reason, u already know it

[Scott Bernard]

If gusto jud ka, naa man daghan TS. If gani dili na kaayo ka marketable, ayaw lang pod pasaka-e ug maayo imong standard para dili ka maglisod pangita.

[kuyabog]

unsa diay imo lain account ts? clone account is living another but wanted lie, isnt it?

[j.alob]

im also a virgin 25 na hehehe

[cebu_doki]

ako open ko FUBU, even friends with benefits

[jaez]

same boat as u, sir. I told them that Im freakin' single and not s3xually active but sila mo tuo. ingon sila nga naa daw ko secret relationship. I said, why would I hide a relationship? gi sugot gali. It's so freakin' tiring to explain myself to them nga I love being single and ask me what's the reason behind. kalagot ning mga tawo lagi, just leave me alone sad with the foreigner thingy, if hilig pa ko ug kano, hagbay ra..

I love being single but sometimes, mag emote2x ko usahay Most of my batchmates and frens are either in a serious relationship or married.

Cory if that is you in the picture you should start thinking sayang imong ka gwapa. is Papaya your favorite fruit?

[yiennahs]

if you want a friend, i am here ^^ cheer up. Gamay ra kaau na imung problema. Kaswerti ra nimu ah compared to those who are having problems with their wives of gfs. Bro, muabot rana. Open yourself to people. Nara na sa imung kilid gahuwat lang. Ü

[jaez]

i have decided to post this one, thinking nga somebody might relate themselves sa akoa...someone who might also share my sentiment as well.

i created this clone account to express myself kung unsa gyud ko beyond my acquaintances' general impression on me.

im a 20+ year old virgin and currently single...a thing that i really hate to admit; a secret that i kept hidden out of fear of being pitied or ridiculed. hehehe. my friends perceive me as either "married", "single dad" or "in a secret relationship with someone"...maybe because of how i project myself to them, and my type of thinking sad, seryosuon man gud ko nga klase. i definitely did NOT pretend to act like one, and neither deny nor confirm their guesses sad (just to make it clear). i let them be kung unsay pagtanaw nila sa ako. i already told them nga single ko, pero they wouldnt just believe. bahala sila. hehe. and i admit, i enjoyed the idea nga they keep on bugging me about my real status.

so in short, nahug siya nga i'm living in a lie to myself because wala man ko nisulti nila kung unsa gyud akong status (they wouldn't believe me anyway).
nakit.an naman gud ko nga naay kuyog nga girl or nagkarga ug bata sa mall, and they thought that was my wife or kid (nikatag dayon ang storya sa office )...that's why naa silay impression nako nga in ana. then mag post sad kog picture atong bataa sa FB, samot sila kaduda nako. i told them it was my cousins' kid, which is true, pero they are very adamant to the extent nga pugson ko nilag paangkon nga akoa gyud tong 'pamilya'. magkatawa lang ko sahay...

truth is, im living ALONE. very alone.

yes, in contrary to general belief. and everything starts to get lonely. yes, i may have friends nga i could hang out with, pero i feel like it doesnt solely satisfy me. i need someone, not necessarily a gf...but a companion nga who could fill in this void. i may currently have a high-paying job, or the capacity to buy things i want...pero it doesnt give me the happiness i longed for.

i have had a relationship with someone before, pero it didnt work out. and i fear to be in a relationship again nga ako ang mag initiate sa move, so i just focus myself on work...work... and work.

another thing that adds up this boredom is that dili na ko close sa akong family. im living independently now. it's more like i have detached myself to them...for they were the reason why my whole personality has changed now. i used to be carefree and had badlungon nga attitude, pero it turned into a cold, stoic and serious one after an incident in the past. i become too cautious now and i always think ahead para mu improve akong life. yes, it definitely work because naa na koy stable job ron somehow, it did paid off...pero it gets really tiring. i do enjoy this life...pero naa man juy kulang.

and besides, lahi man sad akong priority ron gud...wala koy gana mag uyab2 ron...pero i need someone beside me.

how could i fill in this void? i tried to cope up with this thing pero ambot...dili man sad ko dramaturgo nga klase pero it gets f*cking overbearing na.

brod. suroy gud didto sa mga biki bar trust me malingaw ka. naa man kaha ka kwarta.

[nathandrake]

I can relate with you sir, my advice is ask yourself what you want and when you know the answer, go grab it, no matter what!