Is he my son?

[reginakrys]

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in my case, it was 30 days early..plus or minus 3days.

that doesn't mean he's not your son.. wa ko kasabot nganong sure kaayo ka nga dli na imoha? basin na overwhelm lang kas responsibility of being a new dad ha nga itry nalang nimog pasa sa lain.. tsk3x

as i said previously, babies can be born prematurely.. nagsugod man gani kog contractions 25-26 weeks pa! may nalang natabang nya naabot jud ug full term..

[likyam]

basing on what you said noh, di dyud na imong anak. kai nganong gauna na man kag declare na ang ex sa imo wife may katungod mahibal-an na may anak siya pero ngalan nimo ang gigamit di ba.

naa namai paternity test sa Hi-Precision. better ask pila ila rate. it's better to spend lots of money than regretting later on. kai ang sakit ana dili sa imo og sa imo wife ra. pati sa bata. kai mag inferiority complex nang bata nig dako kai confused sa gigikanan niya. it's better to start a married life with TRUTH than living throughout it with LIES.

[kuyabog]

paeta ana TS oie... pero if love dyud nimo cya... mu hold-on dyud ka inyo relationship labaw na na minyo namo bsan pag dli na nimo anak... pero if hate nai imo mafeel... murag d nadyud na maau ipadaun... ipablood test lng sa...

ill have to be honest, the reason i got married was not love but responsibility. abi nako ug ako ang father sa iya gi preggy kay ako man gud naka una. she had a bf who i thought was an ex at the time.

[jLuspoc]

parehas man ni nga O+ tanan.

TS kung parehas mo ug blood type sa imong wife, expect jud ka nga type O pod ang bata.





Source below:

Blood Types Tutorial

[kuyabog]

that doesn't mean he's not your son.. wa ko kasabot nganong sure kaayo ka nga dli na imoha? basin na overwhelm lang kas responsibility of being a new dad ha nga itry nalang nimog pasa sa lain.. tsk3x

as i said previously, babies can be born prematurely.. nagsugod man gani kog contractions 25-26 weeks pa! may nalang natabang nya naabot jud ug full term..

if a baby is born prematruely, in our case, 8 months, healthy baby boy ghapon na? or kinahanglan isulod sa incubator?

in our case, no incubator was needed and the baby was ok man. no signs of anything suggesting being premature. i dont know, i am not medically well educated.

[juan_carlos]

i went thru the same experience except i didnt marry the girl. big mistake u made there. also i had the dna test done.

[behemothharr]

kung nahigugma jud ka niya, dili naka mag hunahuna lain oi.luuy pud baya ang bata..kung tinood man galing imong katahap, aw sa sunod imoha na jud bitaw.

[kuyabog]

i went thru the same experience except i didnt marry the girl. big mistake u made there. also i had the dna test done.

how did u get that dna test done? here locally in cebu? i am finacially and emotionally bankrupt man gud karon oi.

[reginakrys]

if a baby is born prematruely, in our case, 8 months, healthy baby boy ghapon na? or kinahanglan isulod sa incubator?

in our case, no incubator was needed and the baby was ok man. no signs of anything suggesting being premature. i dont know, i am not medically well educated.

30 days earlier than the expected date of delivery? date of delivery is computed as the 40th week mark.. and the range for those babies considered full-term is between 37-42 weeks.. that's why they say pregnant women might give birth 2 weeks earlier or later than their expected date.

so 30 days early = 4 weeks earlier than expected date of delivery, and only 1 week premature (according to the range considered for full-term above). and AFAIK, many babies do well with that and are perfectly healthy.

if i were you, you assess your situation why you're so eager to shove fatherhood into your wife's ex's hands.. and in the meantime, save up for paternity testing kay mao ra jud na sureball maka-solve ana.. but as of now, sa akong nakita, it's not really definite nga dli jud na imohang baby.

[yiennahs]

here are the ways

-check blood type
- ask her if she has had contact with ex a month before you had *** with her
- wait for the baby to grow up and compare
- wala man lang juy lukso ng dugo?
- acceptance, if you love the mother then love the baby!

You are just in stage of denial. You were forced to marry due because of the baby. You don't want the responsibility.