MERGED: All about Crab Mentality

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tabangan... dili iduot paubos... pero naa jud tawo nga suyaon jud kaayo oi dili jud matabang...

[Metz]

we have to start with the kids bai.
kids should be trained to think big, aron if molambo ilaha generation, ma inspire sila rather than pull down.
thinking small usually causes this.

mentality jud ang main issue.
as for the current adult generation, ambot nalang. maybe, help them with their finances aron if madatu sila di na sila mag suya suya hehehe.

[dmcebu01]

we have to start with the kids bai.
kids should be trained to think big, aron if molambo ilaha generation, ma inspire sila rather than pull down.
thinking small usually causes this.

mentality jud ang main issue.
as for the current adult generation, ambot nalang. maybe, help them with their finances aron if madatu sila di na sila mag suya suya hehehe.

Good point BOSS!!!! Bow ko kalima

Nice idea sa kids magsugod, kay some other countries people are not like this kind, instead magtinabangay sila. Naa pay culture nga dili sila modawo ug ideas, ila e share sa gusto makahibalo.

There are some cultures are proud if their friends are successful in business and their work. HIMO ON NILANG inspiration.

[Big_Nito]

we have to start with the kids bai.
kids should be trained to think big, aron if molambo ilaha generation, ma inspire sila rather than pull down.
thinking small usually causes this.

mentality jud ang main issue.
as for the current adult generation, ambot nalang. maybe, help them with their finances aron if madatu sila di na sila mag suya suya hehehe.

Sakto jud ka bro... Dapat ang mga bata tudloan ug friendly competiton ug motivation to improve one self for the better... Also, promote jud ug social interaction sa mga kids...

[nowpress*]

Sakto jud ka bro... Dapat ang mga bata tudloan ug friendly competiton ug motivation to improve one self for the better... Also, promote jud ug social interaction sa mga kids...

ganahan kaayo ko ani sir.

[Cory1986]

There is crab mentality amongst Filipino here. Sakit pamalandongon pero naa jd ni

[bowee]

crab mentality?? its inherent na sa atong batasan jud....

minimizing? murag lisod jud.. especially karon panahuna nga matira ang matibay na ang systema karon..


My proposal?

As ruthless and brutal as it may seem.... Pina Hitler style.. If ako ang President... hehehe

Eradicate 5 generations of filipinos that had come by (excluding me ha, hehehe) . then start the young new generations...to love their fellowmen and never follow the 5 generations past... Erase all history of the past generations....

the new ones will eventually not follow what has gone by.. because they dont know anymore of the generations before them

[jangska]

utak talangka jud kay ning uban pinoy kay daghan nato suyaon kaayo. ahaha.

[silent-kill]

nindot ni imong mga thread TS kai for the wellfare for the filipinos hehehe...

para basin ma lessen ang crab mentality sa mga pinoy is mag sugod tas mga bata matud ma ni Metz...

ato i stop ang kanang atong culture nga "competition" sa mga bata like:
- imong miga oh mas bright pa nimo...
- iyang toys mas nindot pa sa imo...
- mas nindot pa og dress imong miga no?
instead of negative reinforcement ang gamiton, ato gamitan og positive reinforcement. like:
- study ka maau ha para maka palit ka daghan toys ig dako nimo.

para pud sa mga dagko na nga mga tao... mas maau nga dili mag apil2x og chismis kai diri mag sugod ang crab mentality. suya suya bah.

[ShrewdMuch]

People who get a thrill out of pulling other people down are usually insecure. Self-confidence is the key. If your belief in yourself and your abilities is strong and solid, then you wouldn’t mind at all if a neighbor or someone you know happens to step ahead of you in the success ladder. You would be genuinely happy of his success.