ipadakop na imo ex.. w pd batasan ana uiee... saonz.... nya kelangan naa jd evidence para wa na'y lusot... hehe..
ipadakop na imo ex.. w pd batasan ana uiee... saonz.... nya kelangan naa jd evidence para wa na'y lusot... hehe..
day by day, im not as hateful na. i still feel bad sa iyang gihimo but i have decided not to see nor talk to him again. more than enough punishment para niya ang dili na niya makita ang among bb. i know he loves our son but he is just too damn lazy and irresponsible. more then that, gasalig nalang intawn siya nako ug sa iyang parents. magpaka amahan lang siya sa iyang anak kung feel lang niya. there had been several instances nga gi balewala lang niya ang bata, magpakita lang siya ug mingawon siya. ako na lang tong ilimos niya ang netbook oi. dili nako gusto ug daghang gubot kay ma stress ko pag au ug makakita ko niya. thanks sa tanan ni empathize nako. it feels good nga naay mga taw nga naka sabot kung unsa akong gi agian. im a survivor and this experience will only make me stronger. salamat jud kaau ninyo
TS, this is when you Forgive and Forget, and your decision nga magpalayo is okay...but do give the guy's parents a chance to see their APO, it is unfair for them if you don't let them see their grandchild.
Once you say forget you should really forget the guy na and don't let him ever into your life again.
wala na jud mi nag talk ug balik. he deleted our son's pic sa iyang profile diri as i asked him. anyways, he does not deserve our son or me. day by day im coping and i have to keep in mind nga dili nako dapat panghinayangan ang taw nga wala nanghinayang namo. it will not kill me, it will only make me stronger. ang bata lang jud ang akong concern. i cant lie to him when he starts asking questions about his dad. its only my son that i care about now. ang akong ex, bahala na siyas iyang life. honestly, i really dont care anymore ug mag unsa man siya. i hope someone could surpass the 7 years i gave him. he probably have asked his parents to forget about the kid too. for me, its fine if they come and visit. id always be grateful of the kindness they have shown me. they really love my son, i dont doubt it. hay, ambot nganong kinahanglan mag ingon ani mi tungod sa kabuang sa ilang anak. kung dili na sila mo visit, its fine with me too. mas maayo na gani siguro ug maputol na lang tanan ties so everybody can move on.
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