Being the Nice Guy

[ariesmaiden]

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dli oi... mura na'g plus points factor pero dli kahinanlan ang lalaki buotan para makakuha og babay kay nay uban babay once masugdan dli kalet go kay love baya nila... naa sad na mablinded jud na sugtan ang maldito... naa sad nice pero dli man gud love sa girl or lahi sad og mga habits and likes... nay nanguyab na buotan pero lahi man mi og mga priorities and ideals and that's a fact we had to both accept so friends mi... solid friends

[WinFlo]

for me being nice is just part of it. guys have to be nice, honest, trustworthy, thoughtful, loyal and has a sense of humor. pero dapat dili lang pakitang tao, he mustn't pretend to be someone he's not. ang uban man gud, mr. nice lang samtang nanguyab na pero pag uyab na gani or naminyo na adto na ipagawas ang tunay na kulay.

guys, just be yourself. gina-ingon pa, show your true colors. i'm sure di man sad mo gusto kung ang girl mo pretend to be somebody she's not, di ba. kung kamo, kamo jud.

[Isteb]

kasagaran baya sa mga nice guy walay mga uyab. hahaha. sorry. i had to laugh. hehehehe kung naa may uyab, ander pud sila. sorry guys pero mao man ni ang tinuod. hahahahaha...

so mao lagi na. maka uyab pud sila pero mabuang pud silag ginukod kay di man gyud malikayan nga mapul-an ang babae. why? nice guys don't offer the same emotional roller coaster bad boys and adventurous boys offer.

you can be nice. but don't do it all the time. don't be a bad boy, either. or at least, don't be too much of a bad boy. strive to be in the middle. like a bad boy with a good heart. think robin hood. or wolverine.[br]Posted on: October 15, 2006, 03:18:23 AM_________________________________________________p .s. if "being myself" meant "being girlfriendless" then i would sure as hell change. and don't say that people shouldn't change. people change all the time. change is the only thing that doesn't change. get it?

[WinFlo]

p.s. if "being myself" meant "being girlfriendless" then i would sure as hell change. and don't say that people shouldn't change. people change all the time. change is the only thing that doesn't change. get it?

yups, getz ko. change is the only thing that's constant in this world. what i was trying to say is, don't pretend to be somebody who you're not - miski la jud na sa vocabulary nimo ang pagka-caring magpa caring2x lang jud ka para mapa sugot nimo ang girl pero once ma gf na nimo siya mawagtang na ang pagka-caring. naa man gud uban lalake nga very gentleman kaayo pag nanguyab pa, grabe kaayo mo alalay sa girl naa pirmi sa kiliran kung maglakaw. pero pag na uyab na gani, usahay makalimot na mo alalay sa uyab.

i'm not imposing that people shouldn't change, but if you do change then change for the better.

[Isteb]

amen.

[daMiro ronaB]

korak jed ka bai-Isteb- nig kadugayan tumban naka sa li-og if subraan ka kabuotan....nd kd2o emotional roller coaster jed ang kasagaran ila pangi-taon.... mao ng sakay nya mi roller coaster adto starcity

[Streetcar]

For me, yes definitely!

[Ms.Beau]

kasagaran baya sa mga nice guy walay mga uyab. hahaha. sorry. i had to laugh. hehehehe kung naa may uyab, ander pud sila. sorry guys pero mao man ni ang tinuod. hahahahaha...

so mao lagi na. maka uyab pud sila pero mabuang pud silag ginukod kay di man gyud malikayan nga mapul-an ang babae. why? nice guys don't offer the same emotional roller coaster bad boys and adventurous boys offer.

you can be nice. but don't do it all the time. don't be a bad boy, either. or at least, don't be too much of a bad boy. strive to be in the middle. like a bad boy with a good heart. think robin hood. or wolverine.[br]Posted on: October 15, 2006, 03:18:23 AM_________________________________________________p .s. if "being myself" meant "being girlfriendless" then i would sure as hell change. and don't say that people shouldn't change. people change all the time. change is the only thing that doesn't change. get it?

oh pleeeeease...is the word "nice" to be dreaded? should guys be flattered when described as bad instead of nice? I'm sure you don't want your daughters marrying bad boys....think about that.

and re emotional roller coaster, mapul-an sad ang tawo ani oi...most guys complain about women's emotional instability...somehow you'd like to have some peace and stabilty in a person.

between a nice guy and a bad guy, nganong pili-on gud nako ang bad guy? everyone's eventually looking for a nice person...unless he/she is still attracted to unhealthy relationship dynamics.

what we must be referring to is being spineless, underdeveloped...of being not a strong person. If you are weak, your personal boundaries are not clear...you tend to become a people-pleaser, chaser, beggar, etc. You can't hold your ground, you can't make a stand. These are very unattractive, no doubt.

There are nice guys who are mature and developed as there are bad guys who are spineless..those who don't stand up to peer pressure mao na mag bad bad sad sila.

so for me, being a nice AND mature guy is the way to go. No bad boys pleeeease.

[Isteb]

yeah... good point, dude.

[adpro.pit]

Girls may not realize that nice guys arent attractive to them..at first they might fall in love but sooner or later they will get bored and go looking for adventure and they will find that in a bad boy..hehe but if nice guys knows how to be a jerk sometimes and challenge his woman, then that is enough to create the feeling of attraction.. just my 2 cents...