MERGED: Divorce in the Philippines

[jd_cellphone]

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if naa na ng divorce sa atong nasud, mawala na ng...

til death do us part...

kanta mani, diba?

[neurain]

kini! ganahan ko ani kai daghang asawa/bana nga nag antos tungod kai d masayun sayun ang deborsyu dri sa PINAS pero kinahanglan sab jud ug lig-onon sab jud ang ground dli lang kurimason ug decission sa deborsyu..

[neurain]

u mean ok ra sa mag live in? mag stay na ang mag uyab sa usa ka balay for how long?

pwede raman sab guro na ang live-in sa...mag trial and error sa gud mo kung sa inyung tan-aw ni pabor mao na jud aw wana daghang langan palista dayun mo cmbahan

[peewee_toot]

kanta mani, diba?

i dont know kung naa ba nay kanta. basta mao mn na imong gi promise ing kasal. diba?

[jd_cellphone]

for us PINOYS.........

Divorce = Evil (can destroy the sacred of marriage,can destroy family and blah blah blah)
Money = Evil

intiendes?

but if you know how to handle money......money is not evil..

dapat dili ethink nga ang pag file og divorce ing ana lang kasayon....there will be a process na migo miga,

[cliff_drew]

Epokrito? Paminawa imung kaugalingon hunahuna-a ug tarung kung kinsa ang Epokrito.

Dili na lang magpakasal kung dili makatuman sa saad. Maayo nimong "til death do us apart" "in sickness and in health" unya tawgon lang nimo ug epokrito tungod kay lagi nag tuman sa saad? Ka BALASUBAS ug KA WALAY PUANGOD gud nimo ug panghunahuna. Nabuang na ka?!

Pasaylo kung naglagot ko. Mga mods ug mga istoryans. (I will never erase that word give me infraction me if you want)

No. You are not killing your children emotionally. You are just showing them that despite the hardships and mistakes and deeply wounding sorrows your family is experiencing, YOU as a parent (be it the mother or the father) is still there. Strong and confidently believing in GOD that everything will turn out the way they were meant to be.

Catholics (whatever your religion is, everyone who believes in GOD whatever name you call him and no matter how you worship him) are forgetting what and who they really are. Forgetting the teachings of your church, teaching of common sense and of universal morality. Why? Because you want the EASY ****ING WAY OUT.

A society slowly drifting away from the pure and beautiful culture once treasured, loved and celebrated by our ancestors. A culture of close family ties. Of sacrifice, passion and understanding.

NO TO DIVORCE!
YES TO FAMILY!

If you are really true Christian, then follow what the Bible teaches. What is hateful to God is the frivolous putting away of one mate so as to take another. One who deceitfully commits adultery and then either divorces his mate or pressures her to divorce him has committed a treacherous, hateful sin.

However, these verses do not condemn all divorce. This can be confirmed by Jesus' words: "Whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery." (Matthew 19:9) Here Jesus acknowledged that fornication is an acceptable ground for a Scriptural divorce—indeed, the only acceptable ground that allows for remarriage. An innocent spouse might decide to forgive the erring marriage mate. Even though many have found reasons to reconcile with their mate and preserve their marriage, others have valid reasons to choose the God-given option of divorcing an adulterous mate. (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) For example, the safety, spirituality, and general well-being of a faithful wife and her children may be in jeopardy. She may also be concerned about being infected with a sexually transmitted disease. Or perhaps she has forgiven her spouse for committing adultery, but there is little basis for hoping that genuine trust can be restored and that she can continue living with him as her husband. However, a person who chooses to use Jesus' statement as a basis for divorcing an adulterous mate is not doing something that God hates. It is the unfaithful spouse's deceitful conduct that is hated by God.

Children need not to suffer the consequences since marriage can still be saved. This can be done through counseling, regular communication with partners, talking about problems and misunderstanding gently and graciously. Hurling bitter remarks will only cause harm to the relationship. Both (husband and wife) should take good care and protect the marriage the same way they take care with their expensive belongings, their expensive car that even minor scratch is a big deal to them. Patch all loopholes immediately as possible even the small ones to avoid bigger conflicts which further resulted to break-ups.

Remember, two imperfect humans cannot have a perfect marriage. But they can find a measure of happiness. Indeed, even with difficulties, the relationship between you and your spouse can be a wellspring of immense satisfaction. One thing is certain: If both you and your mate put forth effort and are willing to be flexible and seek the advantage of the other person, there is good reason to believe that your marriage can be saved.—1 Corinthians 10:24.

[JcBoY]

nyahahha....

pro divorce here... if it does not work.. why suffer...

d man sad nga basta2x ra pud ka ma divorce.. naa man jud process and justifiable reason... unsaon nalang kadtong mga gipangkulata sa mga bana...

mga asawa nga ang bana sugarol kaau walay trabaho to the point nga ang asawa pay manginabuhi ug mo buhi sa mga anak....

people are just too idealistic that they see the world as pure as black and white... or perhaps most of us are just too naive and stupid....

Mao na! Magkatawa man pud ko sa mga anti-divorce, emotional ra kaayo. Praktikal lang, ngano diay ug pwede na ang divorce sa Pilipinas dali ra diay pud na? It should have a due process maybe for 3-5 months they go for a marital counselling and healing with no physical contact they should live apart from each other to determine kon naa pa gugma si inday kang dodong maingon man si dodong ngadto kang inday.

Kadaghan ba pud pamilya nga nag-suffer ang mga anak tungod sa sigi ug away ang mga ginikanan kay di gyud magkasinabot. Unya ug di pwede ang divorce kadaghan ba pud mga kababayen-an ug mga kalakin-an nato magpuyo ug laing partner nga illegal kay di ka-afford anang annulment process and they will produce more hijo de-bastardo y hija de-bastarda.

Ikaw mismo, mosugot ka ba nga ang imong igsoon nag-antos kanunay kulatahon sa iyang bana o asawa nga mapinasagdanon sa bana ug mga anak.

[ju-Luis]

kita ko sa author ani nga bill ganiha sa anc, iya gi-enumerate og xplain ang grounds for divorce, seems reasonable man sd.

[loki149]

yes yes yes yo ko ani..its good when u hav an option.kay as a human we are bound to commit or make bad decisions..d man ta perfect.

[yiennahs]

so what if we are the only country left without divorce?
it does not make us any lesser than them