Is she cheating?

[Lucian]

yes its cheating. why she already had the agenda or thought of being with someone else while she is still with you. she just made a lousy alibi that she wanted to be free, but reality is she wanted to be with the other guy already. playing safe lang imong gf para dili siya ma ingnan nga 2 timer. kalimti to siya oi, u r right, wala siyay respeto sa inyong almost 5 yr relationship. kung wala ka makasala niya, trust me, mag mahay rato later on

her alibi is that I am the problem which I really admit it with her before and never gave me a chance to improve. Like she is really pushing the reason that I myself is the problem of our relationship.

But i also admit that nagkuwang jud ko niya pero dili pod unta ingon ana, it seems really immature having that kind of reason.

I don't want na magabaan siya pero is this true nga magabaan ang tao or shall we call this KARMA?

[Lucian]

3 months rule doesn't apply to everyone bro. just take it.

somtimes bro. Talking about respect, it does apply.

[THE KID]

^^ nasakitan pa jud d i ka part.....pero wagtanga nana imong kalagot.....

[yvonne6]

her alibi is that I am the problem which I really admit it with her before and never gave me a chance to improve. Like she is really pushing the reason that I myself is the problem of our relationship.

But i also admit that nagkuwang jud ko niya pero dili pod unta ingon ana, it seems really immature having that kind of reason.

I don't want na magabaan siya pero is this true nga magabaan ang tao or shall we call this KARMA?

oppps. im glad there is a little confession here which may lead to my change of impression. bro, 5 years mo and u r saying that she never gave u the chance to improve? r u sure about this? kay ako, gikan ko sa 7 year (almost) relationship and i have a love child with the guy yet wala jud siya mag bag o, NEVER. and dili lang ni basta2 nga pasakit, kanang niagi jud ko ug gipasagdan ko nga nag mabdos, ni cheat pa jud nako ang laki, anyways, this is my story, not yours. if this is the case, maka sulti jud ko nga gi mahal sad siguro kas imong gf (ex na now) kay niabot gud mo ug 5 years. u admitted nga naa kay shortcomings, siguro, dili na maka wait ang imong gf para sa imong pag usab. usahay man gud kamong mga lalaki just because u know nga pasayloon mo, mag binuotan lang kadali, inig taud2, balik sa dating gawi. i guess u had your chance bro. give her the right to be happy and see if the other guy is totally different from how you are. ako lang advise nimo, show her that u have completely changed, for all you know, basig mao ra sad na ang iyang gihulat. i bet mas love ka niya, dili dali kalimtan ang 5 years, even if she cried a lot during those times

[pollybusngiw]

playing safe kaayu imong GF bai..

[Jantehshiznit]

somtimes bro. Talking about respect, it does apply.

thats why i said it doesn't apply to everyone. for some it does, but not all.

[yvonne6]

i know u r hurting ts but if she has said it too many times nga ikaw ang problema, u have to contemplate on yourself, ni angkon naka in the first place nga naa kay shortcomings. basig wala na jud siya maka agwanta. be happy for her and work on being a better person and on your coming relationship/s, please do not do the same mistakes u did in the past

[Baeybe_Bryce]

What is the 3 month rule?

It's like, within 3 months neither of the two (gf-bf) will be in a relationship with anyone for whichever reasons, move on or fix things up.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

her alibi is that I am the problem which I really admit it with her before and never gave me a chance to improve. Like she is really pushing the reason that I myself is the problem of our relationship.

But i also admit that nagkuwang jud ko niya pero dili pod unta ingon ana, it seems really immature having that kind of reason.

I don't want na magabaan siya pero is this true nga magabaan ang tao or shall we call this KARMA?

There is no valid reason for cheating brad. Whatever you think you lack of isn't reason enough for her to cheat. She can end up the relationship if she thinks she can't take it anymore without the need to cheat.

[Lucian]

oppps. im glad there is a little confession here which may lead to my change of impression. bro, 5 years mo and u r saying that she never gave u the chance to improve? r u sure about this? kay ako, gikan ko sa 7 year (almost) relationship and i have a love child with the guy yet wala jud siya mag bag o, NEVER. and dili lang ni basta2 nga pasakit, kanang niagi jud ko ug gipasagdan ko nga nag mabdos, ni cheat pa jud nako ang laki, anyways, this is my story, not yours. if this is the case, maka sulti jud ko nga gi mahal sad siguro kas imong gf (ex na now) kay niabot gud mo ug 5 years. u admitted nga naa kay shortcomings, siguro, dili na maka wait ang imong gf para sa imong pag usab. usahay man gud kamong mga lalaki just because u know nga pasayloon mo, mag binuotan lang kadali, inig taud2, balik sa dating gawi. i guess u had your chance bro. give her the right to be happy and see if the other guy is totally different from how you are. ako lang advise nimo, show her that u have completely changed, for all you know, basig mao ra sad na ang iyang gihulat. i bet mas love ka niya, dili dali kalimtan ang 5 years, even if she cried a lot during those times

miss yvonne, I know your giving me a lot of good advises recently (from my other thread).

Yes she never did gave me chances, she didn't even told me asa ko nagkuwang. So where should I improve? kon mangutana ko mulingo2x..

I know I have been a good partner... but she never did saw the brighter side, she always criticized all about sa mga sayop nako. puro sayop na lang.

Don't you think ka impatient ra kau siya? I mean I could have been better now, I even got a job right now. (Thank God for that.)

And about the other guy? well, i dont know he could be better than me that my girlfriend want him over me.

And she will never cry about the years. She even dont want to show her emotion infront of me. And she once said that naka move on na kuno siya (wla pay month gikan sa pagbuwag).

I guess she dont love me after all, maybe shes been using me.