dongkey
You gotta admit it, bai, that what you did was irresponsible. I know sayun ra kaayo sa uban diri mu ingon ug:
"have you considered your wife's feelings?!"
"nag huna-huna unta ka's imong gibuhat!"
BLAH BLAH BLAH.
Pero kasabot ko's imong na feel bro. Lalaki gud ta, normal rana ang matintal labi na kung naa nata sa "MOMENT". With that said, at the same time, you also have to
MAN UP. Too bad naa'y nag bunga sa nahitabo. I know you wish kutob lang sa lami ug wa unta nabuntis, don't we all wish that? But since nabuntis man, panaguti. I therefore disagree to one poster here who said "AYAW NA LANG SULTII IMONG WIFE". I hope he was joking. Three points why I disagree. One: There's no way to know how the bestfriend would react. Two: There's no guarantee that the wife won't know. Three: You can run but you can't hide.
Given the circumstance, the most viable option is to fricking MAN UP, TELL YOUR WIFE, AND GET DONE WITH IT. If your wife leaves you, just know that it's your own fault and you can never turn back the time and make it right. If your wife accepts (which I doubt), then good for you.
Just remember this: If you won't tell your wife now, sooner or later she's gonna
find out from other people. You don't want that to happen, do you?