Is it okey to wait tobe the 2nd wife after annulment?

[purple]

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i just want to ask a question and it's really up to you. If he stayed with his wife for 20 years and all why is he leaving his wife? I don't know but men tend to look for a crying shoulder when they have a problem in the family and that's why you appeared in the picture.I hate to say this but i don't believe that married man loves you more than he loves his wife.So be careful cause i know of married men who does this thing and eventually go back to their wife...Sometimes our feelings are so strong you could feel its you and me against the world thing but we have to think of the pain the family will go through..that's why marriage is supposed to be for better or for worse.So let him settle everything first with his family rather than keep your relationship with him at this point in time. Kung para sa imo gyud na day, mubalik gyud na sa imo.And one more thing, if he can afford to leave his wife, will he not leave you too? So you have to think about it one hundred times. It's different if you are already living in the same roof than just being together somewhere.

[nesdel]

purple:

That's the first question i asked him when he told me everything and he said his 1st marriage was a mistake our will be "till death do us part" and that's when he promised to marry me in church. They only had a civil wedding because he was forced into it. Im giving him a chance to make good his promise, wait for a year...... I know life is no fairy tale and there's no guarantee of a happy ending. Life isnt just the way we want them to be but we still have got to have faith.. so im keeping my fingers crossed, expect the worst but still hope for the best....

[papetnet]

good luck to u nesdel... hope u wont get hurt in the end....

[sheka]

just go with the flow. time will tell leave it to ur destiny

God BLess

[malene27]

Help me guys, does anyone here knows were to find a good lawyer in cebu to handle a legal separation not for too long, and affordable lang...ky naluoy q sa aq friend na gnhan na mkig separate na