The Good Guy Nobody Chooses

[Light Anthony I]

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Days ago, as I was reviewing for the LET, just after our review, I met my college professor in Sociology. We talked about relationships. Then suddenly He opened the topic about Good Guys Never Chosen. He said that since college and until this day, as he observed my gestures, the stories I told him about my past relationships and how close I am to pretty girls yet I don't get any of them as my GF, he said that I should change my ways. I must be more provocative in terms of flirting and playing "games". But the thing is, I'm not that type. I was raised in a very traditional family and a very protective grandma. Must be the reason why I'm like this. Now, what he said confused me. What should I do?

[Vanillaskies]

Seems you didn't meet this typical girl who will surely love the way you are and what you are and accept you're attitudes are.

Change is a big process, a lot of people might shocked by the big change you opted to be, so IMO, trust yourself first. Anyways, in the end atleast you will not be blaming somebody if you follow their footsteps.

[beyee]

This is interesting.
This is like the male counterpart of this thread

https://www.istorya.net/forums/love/3...ay-jud-na.html
(From the female's side..)

You don't have to change yourself bro in how you
deal with the girls just to bag them. There are still
women who go for men like you.

You just have to go out and engage in activities for
you to meet other people and eventually you'll meet
someone whom you don't need to change just to be
noticed or appreciated.

[porzdude]

ul meet her on a crossroad...

[brian joshua]

naay duha ka bridge bro...pili lng

[Light Anthony I]

salamat sa pagpasabot nako.

[mata_hari]

I wonder what type of women you get by just flirting and playing 'games'. Don't rush... But if you're in your 30s successful and still hasn't hooked it with someone, then I'd be darn worried

[Dorothea]

Ayaw lang pangita ug pretty, bro. Daghan baya mga good girls diha nagpa hipi lang nga gi ignore lang pud sa mga boys, kay lagi mga boys mamili man pud ug murag mga artistahon ug byuti.

[Boyen]

ang tawag anah ky torpi

[whiteKelso]

good guys are the last ones who get laid.